So I've been dating this lady for a few months. I'm really getting sick of her always working 12 hours per day... etc...
I'm trying not to be needy and jealous, though it might come off that way. I work from home, and we were planning on moving in together next month.... But I'm just getting tired of trying to schedule my time around her work hours.
I've asked her several times, "are you sure you're committed to this relationship? I used to work 12hrs a day. But I was single. I really don't like calling off our plans, waiting on your work schedule to make plans and get left holding my dick when you can't reschedule stuff at work that popped to break out plans."
For example, we had plans on Saturday and she told me yesterday she just found out she got scheduled for work on Saturday. Before she left this morning, I told her, "I'm just assuming we are not doing anything Saturday.". She said, "ok, but will you still go out if I can reschedule work?". I just gave a C/F response; no committing to a "yes" or a "no".
Then about 10 minutes ago a friend texted me and asked if I wanted to come watch the Mayweather fight on pay-per-view.
I gladly accepted, then texted her saying, "I think I'm going to Charlie's Bar on Saturday with some friends. That way you can work, and I know what I'll be doing. We can do something Sunday night if you want". A friend had invited me to watch the Mayweather fight at a club (he managed to reserve a table and offered to pay the cover to get for the fight).
I hate to say I'm getting "needy", but I am a little. However, I really don't like waiting to make plans around her work schedule and I've mentioned this in the past.
Reading that novel of a post... answer my this, guys! IS this a good way to put my foot my foot down with out being a super-dick and sounding needy? Just telling her, unless we commit within a reasonable time-frame, I'm gonna assume it's fair game to make plans of my own, and we are not doing anything?
I'm just getting tired of working around her work schedule. I've let her know several times, I really don't like always needing to wait on plans for her schedule that may or may not turn out. So many times I've been stuck not being able to do stuff and sit at home because I was unable to make any plans while waiting on her schedule.
Advice - criticisms - conjecture - opinions welcome!