We get rejected, all of a sudden the girl's value rises in our eyes.
What's the best way to turn a girl's offer of a date down to dhv? Keeping in mind the girl is guaranteed to come back later and ask again (no chance of losing her as you'll see her in a social context anyway).
-appearing to be busy that night doing something really fun with other people instead
-instead of offering an alternative date, saying something along the lines of 'maybe a bit later in the week.' Showing that seeing her is not necessarily hugely important for her and leaving things up in the air
Of course you don't want to come across as a dick who's just trying to hurt her.
Keep in mind here the goal is to massively increase attraction. Yes she is already attracted, but you want it to get to the point where she convinces herself you're the only thing she wants and she can't stand the thought of going without seeing you.
There are two things here: being scarce and making her wonder whether you're interested in her or not. So which is more powerful, or can they be used in combination?
Appreciate it fellas,