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Thread: help with hb10 bartender

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    Default help with hb10 bartender

    Ok so i have managed to date this bartender, everything was going great at first and we went on a date and she even planned on a second date with me at her expense. However recently something happened at her second job where she bartends and got let go. We were chatting about her problems and let her know that I'm there to listen if she needs to talk. sent her a tex 3 days ago telling her that hope she is OK and was thinking about her. She responded hanging with her fam can't say she cares too much of what had happened and she felt that it he getting let go needed to happen. she would normally text me in the am but never did the morning after. So I texted her again saying I sure do hope your ok, haven't heard from you. I care for you a lot and do not be afraid to reach out if you need to talK, there is not a day I don't think about you, if me reaching out is bothering you let me know.

    Did I say too much and scare her?

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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    Did you say too much !?!?!?!?!!??!!? AHHHH YEAH ..... and did you really tell her "there is not a day I don't think about you" ????
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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    Did you say too much !?!?!?!?!!??!!? AHHHH YEAH ..... and did you really tell her "there is not a day I don't think about you" ????
    Reason why I said that is because of her situation. She told me about her situation regarding the place she is living now she is in the process of buying out ex but she needed that extra income to qualify for loan. Was just showing concerns.

    Advice please.

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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    You show concern once you tell her your there for her once ......
    More then that and it gets annoying ....and I would never tell a girl I think about her everyday unless I'm in a relationship with herm if you tell a girl you are in a casual relationship you are going to scare them away

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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    You two have hooked up once or twice and you proposed a marriage. No wonder why she doesn't care about you know. You scared the ass out of her dude!

    Chill out next time, no need to push so much.

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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    Hold your horces bro, I think your coming of clingy and needy. That rapid fire of texts can be quite a turn off. Make things more smoother next time.
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    Default Re: help with hb10 bartender

    Pick up rule #23 never let a girl a girl tell you about her problems and never listen; always change the subject.

    If you dont follow this rule, youll get friend zoned.


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