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    fitness is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Correcting a mistake

    What's up guys? A little history of my experience first:

    I used to be a party promoter/event coordinator. Had my own place with a roommate a year ago and was living the dream. We didn't necessarily go out sarging but we always had parties at our pad and girls were always over and we would sarge them at the party. We had a falling out though and I decided to drop the party life and start going to school to be a personal trainer. I'm a full time student so I couldn't afford the place so now I live back with my parents.
    Since then man, I've dropped out of the whole pick up scene since I've been so focused on school and work but I'm trying to make a come back.

    I started hangin with this girl a few weeks ago and things seemed to be going good. I got a few ioi's the second time we hung out and I thought things were going well. Then I let my emotions get the best of me and starting hitting her up a little too much and inviting her places and I'm pretty sure I made myself way too easy and not much of a challenge anymore. I started getting a lot of IODs and caught myself wondering if she is attracted at all. So I ceased communication and made any response I make with her very minimal until I could get on here and see what others advise to do. She texted me today asking if I was mad at her and I said nah, just very busy right now.

    What do you guys suggest?

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    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Correcting a mistake

    If she reopened you then I am sure you haven't made a huge mistake. There is a pattern I have noticed, if a girl likes you, she will allow you a margin of error. The less a girl likes you, the more on your game you have to be. It seems that she is still interested. I would keep up contact but learn from your mistake. The reply was great, you just said you were busy. This is what we want, you are in control. I suggest you game on as usual. Watch out if you overtext. And invites such as "hey, me and my friends are going to xyz, if you want to make an appearance"

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    Doncarlo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Correcting a mistake

    If you meet her again, its very important that you don't go through the same route again as last time, where your emotions takes over and you get oneitis for her. Always keep telling yourself that you dont really care that much whether you get her or not, but hey if it happens why not. Thats the attitude to have when you are with her.
    Focus on being playful and just having a good time, if things are going well, escalate the conversation (bring in sex topics) and always kino escalate.


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