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Thread: That's just how it is and I have to just suck it up?

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    Default That's just how it is and I have to just suck it up?

    Hey y'all,

    Just wondering what your take is on things.

    So the girl can be bitchy , moody, pmsing, run off with other guys potentially, do pretty much anything she wants and have it her way, because women would rather feel pleasure than anything else.

    And as a man You can't say anything about it, but take it all on your shoulders, carry it and be the man providing and managing the nest, pretty much everything, while she does what she feels like (All just for some Pu$$y?)

    Am I correct? This is really how it works... daam shame, quality of womens' characters have dropped. They have looks, but that's all. To make it worse all of these chumps boost their ego and make it worse.

    So my question is: Being ruthless while carrying that burden seems like the only way. Its been seeming like the only way for a very long time. But seriously is that the only way? No one cares about you unless you have something of value that they want. I dislike this chasing women and just being an option thing, its degrading as a man, playing this game is so wack and unatural. I turned so materialistic trying to accommodate for all my flaws with money for the past 3 years, made me so weak.

    Anything to say on if my thinking is correct? Or have I just not gotten a women to invest in me fully, and I just don't know the feeling of that reward? I mean yeah I'll give away 50% of my life to her if she does, but she aint worth it nor is she doing the same....

    I'll accept it to be the role of a male and let that slip as the role of a female if I can get some decent replies.(Do I just have the wrong ideas here?) Look forward to them and please give me everything you've got, no half - ass replies thank you and appreciate it.

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    Default Re: That's just how it is and I have to just suck it up?

    I'm sort of struggling with a bit of the same right now and trying to calibrate my view on the entire PUA thing. I'll try and comment on as much of your post as possible.

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    So the girl can be bitchy , moody, pmsing, run off with other guys potentially, do pretty much anything she wants and have it her way, because women would rather feel pleasure than anything else.

    And as a man You can't say anything about it, but take it all on your shoulders, carry it and be the man providing and managing the nest, pretty much everything, while she does what she feels like (All just for some Pu$$y?)
    If the women you're dating are doing any of these things then they're simply not worth your time. I've been with plenty of quality women who, because of the status PUA has given me, enjoy every second of time they get to spend with me. Gaming, in my opinion, is all about surrounding yourself with fun, interesting people (men and women)....not bitchy, moody, albeit childish little girls.

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    Am I correct? This is really how it works... daam shame, quality of womens' characters have dropped. They have looks, but that's all. To make it worse all of these chumps boost their ego and make it worse.
    I agree with you on this. However, this is a prime example of how you can use these chumps boosting their ego to your advantage. You're the one that doesn't need a woman to have fun...that in itself will attract quality women. These chumps put the pussy on a pedestal and get the bitchy, moody girls that are about as much fun as a big plate of dirt. Sure, some of them have good looks, but I can bet 95%+ are terrible in bed and aren't worth your time.

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    So my question is: Being ruthless while carrying that burden seems like the only way. Its been seeming like the only way for a very long time. But seriously is that the only way? No one cares about you unless you have something of value that they want. I dislike this chasing women and just being an option thing, its degrading as a man, playing this game is so wack and unatural. I turned so materialistic trying to accommodate for all my flaws with money for the past 3 years, made me so weak.
    You make a great point and example with, "I turned so materialistic trying to accommodate for all my flaws with money for the past 3 years, made me so weak". I CANNOT STRESS THIS BS ENOUGH! The underlying point of the game is that you don't need to be rich, have nice things, etc. to surround yourself with quality women. I have seen countless guys go into the club, get bottle service and think that because they're showing their wealth, girls will automatically want to sleep with them. Sure, there are some shallow girls who might give in to this immature behavior but these girls, again, AREN'T WORTH YOUR TIME! Ironically, if you act or genuinely convey that you don't need a woman to have fun...the woman will flock to you....quality, interesting women that ARE worth your time.

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    Anything to say on if my thinking is correct? Or have I just not gotten a women to invest in me fully, and I just don't know the feeling of that reward? I mean yeah I'll give away 50% of my life to her if she does, but she aint worth it nor is she doing the same....
    It seems a bit like you're talking about marriage here? This is something I struggled with until I realized I have no intentions of getting married in the near (and quite possibly far) future. I challenge you to go out next time with some friends (or alone) with the SOLE intention of having fun for yourself and meeting interesting people...not bitchy whores. The right women will start to open for you.

    As I said, I share many of the same feelings as you right now and forgot what my goals were when I got in to PUA. Yes, ultimately you want to meet high quality women, but you really just want to surround yourself with a fun atmosphere. Stay away from the bitches...

    Good luck bro! I know that's a lot of rambling but hopefully you can make some sense of it.

    - ShoreGuy
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