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Thread: Text message to melt her heart of stone

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    Default Text message to melt her heart of stone

    The other night while I was walking with my colleague in a park which was quite dark I noticed a girl and very very strangely I felt a strong connection and a desire to talk to her! So I ditched my colleagues and went after the girl and I must say I did an impeccable approach in such a difficult situation (dark park, earphones in her ears etc) so that we stayed there and chatted for a good ten minutes.

    She asked me a lot of questions, I touched her twice and she touched my twice (on the arm!).

    We swapped numbers and 3 hours later I texted her and said "It was nice meeting you and chatting to you earlier tonight. Are you always so friendly?". I refrained from sending something cocky because she seemed too nice and humble!

    I can see that she has red my message (iPhone shows it) but after 3 days I've got no response. Not only I liked her and so I want to see her again but also I'm surprised that after such a good convo she did not reply!

    I don't want to be a pussy and send her a message to beg her for a reply but at the same time I really want to send this message across that I'm not a player and I genuinely am interested in her. Can you please help me with this and tell me what message would be more likely to work. And why she did not reply do you think?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    "It was nice meeting you and chatting to you earlier tonight. Are you always so friendly?"

    You did good here. I would say she probably doesn't respond because there wasn't enough attraction in the first place. Ohk You can send her something along these lines, "What? playing hard to get already? Nice. Don't you know you can't play hard to get on a man that is hard to get?"

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Quote Originally Posted by hlestar View Post
    "It was nice meeting you and chatting to you earlier tonight. Are you always so friendly?"

    You did good here. I would say she probably doesn't respond because there wasn't enough attraction in the first place. Ohk You can send her something along these lines, "What? playing hard to get already? Nice. Don't you know you can't play hard to get on a man that is hard to get?"
    Thanks Hlestar

    What is the purpose of your suggested message? I mean does it increase the attraction level , or does it make her respond so I can restart building attraction again?

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Thanks Hlestar

    What is the purpose of your suggested message? I mean does it increase the attraction level , or does it make her respond so I can restart building attraction again?

    It will make her respond there are a lot of good conversation starters on text messaging.
    Here is another one, "Hi [insert name], I was looking for someone to text who is adorable and cute but I thought it would be weired if I text myself, so I texted you instead".This will work absolutely fine. I guarantee a response

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    You didn't get a response because "It was nice meeting you and chatting to you earlier tonight. Are you always so friendly?" Is a lame ass first message and its BORING. I wonder how many other guys have sent her messages just like that???? We need to remember that every text message should be original, funny, and interesting.T- Mal was the master at texting ..... READ HIS GUIDE and learn


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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Anybody who sends a text saying “Hey what’s up?” or “How are you doing?” or “Hi, how was your day?” should just smash themselves in the head with a hammer

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Quote Originally Posted by hlestar View Post
    It will make her respond there are a lot of good conversation starters on text messaging.
    Here is another one, "Hi [insert name], I was looking for someone to text who is adorable and cute but I thought it would be weired if I text myself, so I texted you instead".This will work absolutely fine. I guarantee a response
    Haha this one is very funny. And interestingly she responded !! Though she said she was not looking for a relationship with anyone. Any way I can pass this hurdle?

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Haha this one is very funny. And interestingly she responded !! Though she said she was not looking for a relationship with anyone. Any way I can pass this hurdle?
    Aussiearef wait did you say you are looking for a relationship? Why the hell would she tell you that? If not you should have sent her something along, "You like me. I just met you and you already telling me your personal problem. NICE!!!!"

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    Default Re: Text message to melt her heart of stone

    Though she said she was not looking for a relationship with anyone.
    Whoa slow down there missy! I know I'm awesome and all but who said anything about a relationship?! Looks like I misjudged you lol

    She's disqualifying you as potential partner already. That tells me straight away that you haven't built enough attraction. You need to turn it on her now and make her chase you.

    I refrained from sending something cocky because she seemed too nice and humble!
    Who cares?! You should send what you want to send, and behave how you want to behave! If she doesn't like it then that's her choice.

    I really want to send this message across that I'm not a player and I genuinely am interested in her.
    Stop bending over backwards for this chick you don't even know! You've given her all the value already, she needs to be the one proving herself to you.

    That first message was pretty weak! Also, I personally wouldn't wait 3 hours to fire off the first text, any attraction built during the pick-up is all but lost. I don't really have a rule for it, but mine is normally within the first 30 minutes and I think anything over an hour is probably too long - each to their own on that one though


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