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    Default This is a confusing one

    Had a third date with this girl. Still no kiss.


    Kino has been good all the way, she seems comfortable with me holding her, caressing her side, leading her with my hands around her waist and such. but she's rejected my 2
    kiss attempts. first time she said it was too soon because she just got out of a relationship.


    at the third date I really thought she was into me. she'd invited me over and cooked a fancy dinner for me and then we had wine. i went for the kiss and yet again she declined, i just said alright then with a smile and then continued convo.


    she keeps accepting dates and even suggesting on her own so i just cannot fathom her not wanting to kiss. the second time she even brought me a gift for crying out loud lol.


    My instinct tells me she's interested but we know its sometimes hard to judge a situation when you're in it. so what should be my next move? my patience is running thin tbh but at the same time i dont want to throw away a lovely girl.


    i do have a date tonight with another girl so im spinning plates. just that the alluring hard to get girl is the one who gets your attention, as per usual..

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    Make her horny. Arouse her to a point of no return, escalate as far as you can. If she rejects you the first time on the date, go for it again later on in the date. If she says no. Then stop. But if she gives you things such as just got out of a relationship, I'd try again and see how real that objection is.

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    I would say use this method.

    Bring it into the conversation somehow as to how she feels when she is around u (NO, dont ask her that directly but bring it into the conversation slowly; it must feel natural)

    What she says does not matter. What you do next matters. You have to be able to calibrate very well for this though.

    e.g: Is she says she feels comfortable just say "humm.. how comfortable do u feel" and slowly lean into her as if going in for a kiss but not really. KEEP STRONG EYE CONTACT. DO NOT KISS HER. Go in close and see how she reacts.

    And before you think she is going to hesitate, stop and come back. Pretend you somehow lost interest in the whole thing.

    The purpose here is to create tension ! Use other methods to do that as well like escalating better kino as suggested in the above post.

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    Why do you keep rewarding her with more dates when you are not getting what you want ..... you need to go cold on this girl for a week or so, when she contacts you via text asking whats going on, wait a few hours and tell her you've been busy and allude to the fact you've been dating " I'm going out with a friend tonight" ........ You need to make her realize that you have lots of options and if she isn't going to give you what you want you'll move on
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    So how are you going to make her horny if she won't kiss ????

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    sorry guys. bad advice, not sure where my head was at. bowing out gracefully out of this one.

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    Default Re: This is a confusing one

    It just sounds like she's very guarded to me.


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