Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
  1. #1
    parapa is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 146, Level: 2
    Level completed: 92%, Points required for next Level: 4
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2014
    Posts
    22
    Points
    146
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Where did I go wrong?

    Saturday night me and two friends of mine went to a local bar. We sat near a group of girls and we were just having some fun, dancing laughing etc. At some point a friend of mine asked one of the girls a silly question, but there was no response. At certain moments I noticed there were some laughs, light kino, eye contact with me. After about 20 minutes a girl showed him in her mobile phone the answer to his question. About 5 minutes later they all asked me to take some photos of them with their mobile phone cameras...and then I asked them some stuff about their lives and since I got an answer both of my friends started talking with them as well. I bought some shots for both my friends and the girls(since we were all talking together) and then tried to play cold(not to seem desperate).

    About 20 minutes later of no conversation with them and since something unexpected happened, I suddenly abandoned the bar with my friends(no goodnight to these girls) and about 1 minute later these girls came the same way behind us. I gave this one girl a hug and wished her the best(I didn't even ask what her name was).

    For some reason about half a minute later I started running towards the way these girls had left, found that girl I hugged and told her to give me anything that I could use to reach her(in a really nice way though). She was positive and gave me her full name.

    I told my friends later and one of them immediately added her as a friend on facebook. She accepted the request later. I told him that he was too hasty about that.

    I send her a friend request today along with a message introducing myself(since I don't have photos of mine or my real name on my facebook profile), only to find out that after 20 minutes I was "following" her, meaning that she did not accept my request. The fact is that I did all the "tough" work and I still don't understand why she accepted my friend and not me.

    These girls mainly approached me, I saw some interested and still I don't understand why this happened. Dunno what to do next or what went wrong.

    What's your opinion about that?

  2. #2
    kylemc is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 385, Level: 7
    Level completed: 70%, Points required for next Level: 15
    Overall activity: 6.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2014
    Location
    Ireland
    Posts
    96
    Points
    385
    Level
    7
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    23

    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Heres my take on it

    Quote Originally Posted by parapa View Post
    then tried to play cold(not to seem desperate).
    What do you mean by cold? Were you unresponsive answered with yes or no to end the conversation?

    Also for the Facebook friend thing update it include a good picture of yourself and your real name, If you given her your real name in person and your name on facebook is different to the one you gave her for all she knows you lied to her? Possible chance but think about it...

    To answer the last part unless you kiss closed she may of just given you a few iois and found your friends to be more interesting than you. Don't be offended

    Sh*t Happens
    "A man who stands for nothing, will fall for anything" - Malcom X

  3. #3
    parapa is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 146, Level: 2
    Level completed: 92%, Points required for next Level: 4
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2014
    Posts
    22
    Points
    146
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Since I broke the ice, I told a friend of mine that he and her had something in common. In an instance my friends went to speak with them and the third girl just went somewhere...so I was left alone for a bit and decided to get shots for everyone. We drank something and then I was sitting there by myself and not interacting since two girls were only in the company and the third one missing. After 5 minutes my friends came to me and I didn't want to go speak to these girls just by myself.

    Anyway I spoke with one of my friends today and he told me that he had already gotten the fb of that girl I "chased", I thought he had told me he didn't get anything out of that seconds before I made that ridiculous decision, but thanks for the alcohol..which makes me feel like a total wuss.

    He talked with her last night and she was positive about us going out with her friends for some drinks.

    Now my problem is, I feel like I totally farked up, embarassed myself after a nice start and got a fb "rejection". If we go out with these girls, how the fark am I going to salvage this? Never gotten myself in such a situation before. Also I made my fb account better, just in case...


Similar Threads

  1. What am I doing wrong?
    By j0rg in forum General Questions
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 06-10-2013, 02:00 AM
  2. not sure if i went wrong or not
    By Hopeful33 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 09-10-2012, 04:04 PM
  3. Tell me where I went wrong.. if I did
    By ultimateafc in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 09-08-2012, 06:49 AM
  4. What did I do wrong?
    By Bimmer in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 08-29-2012, 12:26 AM
  5. What's wrong with a cat?
    By PUA808 in forum Help Getting A Girlfriend
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 10-08-2010, 01:11 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com