This is more of a general question but applies to seduction too.
I'm a positive person, I don't hate anyone, I try to help when people ask me. I'm a bit more intellectual than most people, and I like to acquire new information about things. I don't try to impose this knowledge to other people because I've learned that they get annoyed by it.
I'm very competent at everything I do, if I do something I do it perfectly, including favors for friends.
The thing is, people don't seem to respect me. I have a few friends but they also don't seem to respect me a lot. They tend to respect more people who have less skills than me, less knowledge than me, and people who are hugely incompetent in everything they do.
It's the same with girls, I've had a few girlfriends and I usually treat them good, but at some things just fall apart.
On top of that, some people tend to dislike me without me saying or doing anything bad to them at all.
I just can't figure this out, it's very hard on me. Any help would be great.