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    Default can't Think of anything to say

    Hey All!

    So i started getting into the openers and im having a lot of trouble with Mid Game.
    of course it depends how i do the Cold approach and how i open a girl and the conversation pretty much goes from there.

    but i struggle with it, if she tells me something like "oh he is my half brother"
    "but he is black"
    "thats what im saying, he is half brother"
    "Oh okay, Interesting"

    Just an example, i did have this conversation with a girl, afterwards i had a blank, i did not know what to say, any tips and advice to how i can improve this?
    I could comment on what she is wearing, her nails, her hair.. i could say

    "oh you look really friendly, i am probably wrong and you will murder me as soon as we go out"
    or
    "You..Yeah you seem like trouble, I like troublemakers, i bet you get into loads of trouble"

    Thanks for reading!

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    Default Re: can't Think of anything to say

    You have good C&F lines.

    There are only 2 openers you need : direct and situatonal.

    After you have opened transition into normal chit chat mode:

    Question>statement>q uestion>statement etc.

    You dont want to ask a load of questions like an interview.

    You can insert some teasing like above, and flirting to keep things interesting.

    If you run out, go situational: what drink is that etc

    Or just make an assumption

    Your welcome.

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    Default Re: can't Think of anything to say

    I recognize the problem because I have it to.
    What am doing currently is trying to set hooks so she can take the bait. I still catch myself in a question rapid fire to counter that I made a exercise for myself. There for I am only allowed to make statements and forbid myself to ask any questions. As for situation openers it's the best thing to start off with if you're new to the game in my opinion.
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    Default Re: can't Think of anything to say

    When you progress further in the learning the game you will not need openers, routines, hooks, etc. The idea is you have to become a good conversationalist, and that takes practice, so when you are out and about talk to random strangers ...... male, female, young , old m the guy stocking shelves in a store, the girl behind the register at the market , the guy valet parking cars ..... it doesn't matter , the idea is to be able to hold a conversation with anybody about anything , another important point is to be observant so you can comment on your environment and the things going on around you ..., that's how you never run our of things to say. When I was in my twenties, I was painfully shy but I've overcome that and now I can talk to anybody, you just need to work at it and you'll get good.
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