There is this super hot girl in a cafe that I get my coffee from every morning. Yesterday I decided to pick her up so I asked her about her background then I introduced myself and I said that I wanted to see her after her work. Needless to say I was very direct and she had a bit of a shock. She laughed and left to serve some clients.
Since I was lucky one of the old women who lives in the neighborhood turned up and I went and sat with her for a bit. I think seeing that I was chatting to an elderly was a sort of DHV because then she started checking me and smiling at me!
In the afternoon again I got lucky and while I was around there she finished work and left the cafe but this time I stopped her and said to her that I was serious about seeing her and getting to know her. She said that she would love to see me for a coffee but that she had started seeing a new guy. She said that "It's very Fresh" and I said "then if you have a coffee with me you will ditch her in a heartbeat". Surprisingly the same night I saw her on Tinder, which means she is actually looking for a guy. Since she works when I am free (on the weekends) and I work when she has time (during the week and maybe after uni) it's a bit tricky for me but I want to work on her and win her over. She added me on FB so do you think I should message her and invite her to a coffee or something? I am afraid that if I stick to messaging her the other guy will see her more and I will get forgotten!