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Thread: She has a fresh new guy!

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    Default She has a fresh new guy!

    There is this super hot girl in a cafe that I get my coffee from every morning. Yesterday I decided to pick her up so I asked her about her background then I introduced myself and I said that I wanted to see her after her work. Needless to say I was very direct and she had a bit of a shock. She laughed and left to serve some clients.

    Since I was lucky one of the old women who lives in the neighborhood turned up and I went and sat with her for a bit. I think seeing that I was chatting to an elderly was a sort of DHV because then she started checking me and smiling at me!

    In the afternoon again I got lucky and while I was around there she finished work and left the cafe but this time I stopped her and said to her that I was serious about seeing her and getting to know her. She said that she would love to see me for a coffee but that she had started seeing a new guy. She said that "It's very Fresh" and I said "then if you have a coffee with me you will ditch her in a heartbeat". Surprisingly the same night I saw her on Tinder, which means she is actually looking for a guy. Since she works when I am free (on the weekends) and I work when she has time (during the week and maybe after uni) it's a bit tricky for me but I want to work on her and win her over. She added me on FB so do you think I should message her and invite her to a coffee or something? I am afraid that if I stick to messaging her the other guy will see her more and I will get forgotten!

    Cheers

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    Default Re: She has a fresh new guy!

    The best thing you can do right now is put her on the back-burner and:

    a) work on attracting other women,
    b) succeed at attracting other women, and
    c) circle back to her and ask again

    Your whole approach will be completely different the next time around, because you will have more going on, and she'll pick up on it. You'll also become less outcome-dependent than you obviously are right now.

    The very next time you see her, get into a real conversation and DHV more. Let her know you have real things going on, and you live in an exceptional world. Hopefully, your Facebook shows this. Don't pick her up. Let her know you're a high-quality person who once asked her out. Do the above and give her the second chance. She'll probably say yes.

    Prove your value, first, then let her want you.

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    drgnsfire12 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: She has a fresh new guy!

    She told you she was seeing somebody because you were being a creeper and she wanted to get rid of you
    You build ZERO attraction, ZERO rapport and you tell her that you want to see her, you then show up again when she is leaving work , stop her, tell her you want to see her a second time !?!?!?!?!?!? ....... most girls would be really put off by that
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: She has a fresh new guy!

    There is no way you will get a date now ...... move on


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