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Thread: Where to live?

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    Default Where to live?

    I am 34, and I've only had long-term relationships in the last 10 or 15 years. The last one being 5 years and ending in December. I've read The Game but never actually tried going out to night clubs and applying the techniques.... ...mostly because I don't have anyone to wing with.

    I am starting to think that I need a change of pace..... to move to a different city.

    CURRENTLY:
    I am thinking that San Antonio, TX is not a great city for me, because:
    (A) I am single. (I hear people say SA is more of a family city... makes me wonder if I am missing out on good singles-oriented cities.)
    (B) I am physically fit. (seems like there are a lot of obese people here!)
    (C) I am caucasian. (there are only 25% caucasians here according to city-data.com. My 5-years ex-gf, who was Mexican, said part of our problem was different cultural values... ... which I didn't totally disagree with.... and which got me thinking about this.)

    So.... I've been looking at other cities such as.....
    .Seattle
    .Portland, Oregon
    .Austin, TX (although I feel like maybe this is too easy of an option, only being 90 min away from where i live now)
    .Colorado Springs, Colorado
    .Boulder, Colorado
    .Salt Lake City, Utah (except I'm not mormon)
    .somewhere in California? (exceptionally high cost of living though..)

    Questions:
    Do you think LARGER, metropolitan cities would be better?
    More night clubs? More bars?
    More places to practice PUA techniques without bumping into the same girls?
    Any cities known to be good for PUA?

    Downsides:
    I would be moving away from family.
    I'd have to quit my job (software developer), which is actually a pretty good job.

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    Default Re: Where to live?

    (B) I am physically fit. (seems like there are a lot of obese people here!)
    for starters, this is a huge advantage. being fit in an area that is plagued by obesity puts you farther towards the top end of the datable men for women in your area.


    I've read The Game but never actually tried going out to night clubs and applying the techniques.... ...mostly because I don't have anyone to wing with.
    you should at least try the night scene out, though I will admit the environment is usually more geared towards people who are barely legal to drink.

    (C) I am caucasian. (there are only 25% caucasians here according to city-data.com. My 5-years ex-gf, who was Mexican, said part of our problem was different cultural values... ... which I didn't totally disagree with.... and which got me thinking about this.)
    white privilege brother, white privilege. its no secret that being white makes getting foreign girls easier. (especially ones who weren't born in the u.s.) I've heard all kinds of stories from friends who took trips to countries like mexico, japan and south korea. getting one night stands with the hottest locals was much easier out of the country. of course the main reason for this is the lack of variety these woman suffer from, combined with the fact that they hold Americans in such high regard.

    So.... I've been looking at other cities such as.....
    .Seattle
    .Portland, Oregon
    .Austin, TX (although I feel like maybe this is too easy of an option, only being 90 min away from where i live now)
    .Colorado Springs, Colorado
    .Boulder, Colorado
    .Salt Lake City, Utah (except I'm not mormon)
    .somewhere in California? (exceptionally high cost of living though..)
    of these, I think Austin texas would be the best city for you. it has a buzzing night scene, plenty of tourists, and its not that far from your current city and job.

    Do you think LARGER, metropolitan cities would be better?
    More night clubs? More bars?
    More places to practice PUA techniques without bumping into the same girls?
    Any cities known to be good for PUA?
    it doesn't matter where you are, you're going to bump into the same girls. hell, during my boot camp in Manhattan, we ran into the same group of bitchy Asian girls two nights in a row at 2 different clubs. I also saw a girl I'd talked to in a club the next day at a coffee shop. (that's NYC, one of the biggest cities in the states, and I was only there for 3 days and 3 nights)

    Any cities known to be good for PUA?
    my favorite author "Tucker Max" really liked the scene in Austin texas. (almost all of his stories are hilarious tales of drunken nights and hookups)

    I'd have to quit my job (software developer), which is actually a pretty good job.
    if you love your job, don't move just to get girls. odds are, if you can't get girls in your city, you probably won't have much better luck somewhere else.

    I would highly suggest you try out the dating/club scene in your city and find the venues and events best suited for you. I'd recommend scouting most of the clubs in your area before deciding to move. (hint, google maps is a very handy way to discover all the bars and clubs in your city)

    once you find your favorite clubs, become a regular at one or two of them and get to know the staff and other regulars. you shouldn't have too many problems getting girls once your social proof is through the roof.

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    Default Re: Where to live?

    If I had nothing tying me down, I would move to Europe, ...... Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Barcelona, or Berlin,
    ...... love gaming European girls and they are so different then American girls
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