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    Default HB does not leave much space for text game

    This has happened to me a few times and every time I have farked it up so I need your guys' take on it.

    Like today I number closed a HB9. She was very friendly , we chatted for 10 minutes-ish and then I number closed her. Then I sent my usual text opener and she replied with something like "Haha it was very nice to meet you too. Enjoy your evening."

    This "Enjoy your evening" thing puts an end to the conversation and makes it very hard to continue the conversations. It's as if she wants me to leave her a lone politely. When this happened to me before I just ignored it and tried to keep the convo going but then I got not response.

    Can you please direct me as to how I can go around this?

    thanks

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    Default Re: HB does not leave much space for text game

    It's funny how you meet all these HB 9 &10's but can't get a date and they ignore your texts and emails ....... you must be giving off the wrong vibe

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    Default Re: HB does not leave much space for text game

    Quote Originally Posted by DSAN1 View Post
    It's funny how you meet all these HB 9 &10's but can't get a date and they ignore your texts and emails ....... you must be giving off the wrong vibe
    That's exactly what I was thinking. I get 1 solid number every day. so I have normally 7-10 numbers in a week! And from HB8 , HB9 and HB10. Where I work is the snobbiest part of Sydney and is heaven for someone who is into day game! But unfortunately I fark up 80% of the cases int text game, 10% in dates and only 10% get laid! If I could increase my success rate to say only 40% I would be the happiest man on this planet haha.

    I believe I've got two issues:

    1- My text game is shit! Do you know a good book or reference for learning the text game very well?
    2- I am too impatient and I try to see the chicks too soon before I make a good banter. I am already working on this one. I am hyper active and being impatient is very common and normal for people like me.

    Please if you know a good book or reference for learning a solid text game let me know.

    p.s. I just arranged a date with the HB I mentioned in my original post. See? Not every HB ignores my texts!

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    Default Re: HB does not leave much space for text game

    To improve your text game try this




    https://www.puaforums.com/online-tex...nal-bible.html

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    Default Re: HB does not leave much space for text game

    Try to come up with an inside joke when you meet her. Let me give you an example.

    You are talking to the the obstacle and the target says some kind of sarcastic comment:

    "Woah calm down there trouble maker" (with a smile on your face) "This girl dude, you can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere huh?" (speaking to the obstacle)

    Then when you eventually number close her, wait a while to text her and when you do just be like, "what's up trouble maker?"

    I think Mystery Method labels this as conspiracy. It's a little inside joke between you two that builds a lot of rapport as if you guys are good friends. Try it and let us know how it goes

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    Default Re: HB does not leave much space for text game

    Thank you guys. I had a think about it yesterday and I discovered that every time a chick slept with me with minimum effort was when I actually did not text her much!! Every time I tried to make banter with a chick though excessive texting I farked it up.

    That's why yesterday I thought to myself "Fark it, I am going to skip all the rules and ask her out" and so I texted her "Hey, at my lunch break I want to eat Mexican with someone fun. are you fun?". Then she responded and suggested that we have lunch together next Wednesday at 12:30!

    I think sometimes all those PUA rules and formulas become counter productive, especially for someone like me who is not patient and not a good player really.

    I've read T-Mal's text game guide. Although it's a treasure I think I need something more in-depth. Like something which can teach me the subtle things you teach me here.


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