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    Default First Date Follow Up

    Last night I went out with a girl for the first time. We went and got dinner and then went to a couple of bars. At the second bar we played shuffle board for a while and were joking with each other. Everything seemed to go well. Altogether we were out for three hours on the night. As we left she gave me a hug and said talk to you soon. I texted her this morning and said I had fun and made a joke about something we talked about last night. Today she didn't seem as into it. She just said thanks I had fun too. Do you think she's interested in a second date?

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    Default Re: First Date Follow Up

    Next time...leave the dinner out as a first date idea . The only way to find out is to ask her out again..ask for another meetup.

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    Default Re: First Date Follow Up

    Without flirting & touching (kino) all those activities make for a great "friendship"... not attraction.

    She had a "fun time", sure.... but it doesn't sound like there was anything to spark emotional reactions & build curiosity.
    Instead, it was just a casual night out... better than staying home alone, but nothing that really got her attention.

    Mr. Assertive nailed it above.... Definitely skip the dinner idea for the first date!


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