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    Default flakes...

    hey i just got flaked on last night and am confused as why, i know flakes are common if didnt build enough attraction or connect enough but it was on. Met on tinder talked on phone for over an hour, fun texting, lots of dhv'ing.. superr good connection n she was totally into me begging to see me...she said come 2 nights ago i said i had plans and she agreed to meet last night, but yesterday didnt hear from her i texted her "see u soon" no answer. waited there like a douche, she didnt show, called she said she couldnt talk and to text her (so last txt i sent her was "where r u?") and havent heard from her since...i learned will never meet a girl again without getting solid confirmation first. but still what the hell?

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    Default Re: flakes...

    in my opinion you're over reacting, you said you built attraction and she was the one who wanted to see you, there is a chance that she's just testing you to see how well you'll react to her flaking and making you chase her, and the more likely chance is that she really had some sort of an emergency or a friend of her needed help with something, the best way to react in any of these scenarios is not to be a cling, don't text her 24/7 and seem like a creep because that built attraction will fade very easily. Wait like a week and see if she texts you first or until you text her again, if she doesn't respond then, cut it, she's obviously not interested, but for now, if you really did connected it's most likely that there's a solid explanation for why she couldn't see you. When you text her after a week don't get all mad and start arguing with her for why she couldn't see you, be cool about it, if possible don't even mention it unless you plan on doing it in a playful way, for if you it will be awkward for her to set up a meeting with you. So like I said, don't over react, don't blow up her tinder with messages, wait a bit, if it still goes sour, you know where you stand and you should move on.

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    Default Re: flakes...

    My rule is one flake out and I walk away. There are too many girls out there to hang around and deal with one that has issues especially since I'm not a psychologist

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    Default Re: flakes...

    I'm usually like that, but if I find the girl very interesting and attractive I give them a chance and think of it as either a test or that she really had an emergency, wait a while, hit her up again, if she flakes out again - game over, 2 strikes

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    Default Re: flakes...

    thnks alergy, imma take ur advice n see where it goes, makes perfect sense less reaction the better not to give her value, i would just drop her but its not often i really enjoy conversation with a chick...
    cheers

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    cheers mate, hit me up if you have any updates on your situation


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