hey i just got flaked on last night and am confused as why, i know flakes are common if didnt build enough attraction or connect enough but it was on. Met on tinder talked on phone for over an hour, fun texting, lots of dhv'ing.. superr good connection n she was totally into me begging to see me...she said come 2 nights ago i said i had plans and she agreed to meet last night, but yesterday didnt hear from her i texted her "see u soon" no answer. waited there like a douche, she didnt show, called she said she couldnt talk and to text her (so last txt i sent her was "where r u?") and havent heard from her since...i learned will never meet a girl again without getting solid confirmation first. but still what the hell?