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    Default What makes a dominant man?

    Hi there guys. I am wondering, what makes a man dominant. Does a man have to be able to win fights to be dominant? Thanks.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    when I think of a dominant I don't think of a bully who picks on other and lowers there self esteem, but rather a leader who doesn't need physical or vocal violence to be the alpha male of the group and instead pulls others up instead of knocking them down. He is most likely to be very relaxed, not the most aggressive one, his character is so solid that he doesn't get affected by outside frictions (stuff that doesn't go his away), someone who is funny - has a good sense of humor (not to be confused with a clown who laughs only at his own expense), who is trustworthy, is very confident and who is able to make decisions for the greater good of the group.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    To be dominant that requires confidence. Once you have that down you can be a dominant man. Dominance is another word for being selfish in a good way. To have your own interests as a first priority is dominance to me. The way I treat my woman, comes out of dominance, I want her so my actions display this. Dominant people are also sure of themselves.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dillinger View Post
    what makes a man dominant.
    I think your talking about alpha males here correct me if am wrong.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dillinger View Post
    Does a man have to be able to win fights to be dominant? Thanks.
    No, a alpha male doesn't need to fight at all!
    He talks his way out by deescalating/calming the situation.

    My general rule to fight if someone ells gets attacked/harmed or i need to defend myself from harm because the other guy trows a punchs first.
    Never ever fight unnecessary it causes loads of trouble

    Rules for alpha males:


    1. A alpha male accepts who he is and is not effect by what other people think of him.2
    2. Is passionate about the things he does.
    3. Can accept that is made a mistake and is not afraid of failing because he can learn from the mistakes he made.
    4. Accepts challenges because he is not afraid of failing.
    5. A alpha male is a problem solver in a social situation, life so he can improvise fast to find a solution for the problem.
    6. High morals and values. A true Alpha male is not what we will call a ‘loose’ man. He has high moral principles. He is not abusive or arrogant and does not look down upon others. Many people confuse Alpha males and Bullies. But generally, while bullies are very aggressive on the outside, alpha males are very calm, calculated and controlled peopl
    7. A alpha male is not bossy at all, Leaders say; Lets do this Bosses say; Go to this

    These are some of my tips

    These below are from a source Alpha Male Tips | Traits Of The Alpha Male


    Body Language
    20. Alpha males talk slowly. They never rush things, they are always in control. They have a way of having there audience eat at their every word. They know they are important and when they talk they command this importance.
    21. They walk slowly, not not lazily. There is a difference. Alpha males are very controlled people. They are not always in a rush like everyone else. An Alpha male will be very disciplined to be on time or earlier for a meeting and well prepared. He will therefor have enough time to observe and think through his strategy.
    22. Really Good Communicators. The alpha male is a great communicator both verbal and non-verbal. He shows his feelings through positive body language and is not afraid to show his sexual side. Women love this too – Men who are not wussies at flirting and showing their sexuality. It is not about telling a woman that you love her. Its about Expressing it in body Language and letting her read it with her subconscious mind.
    23. Witty. Alpha males have a high sense of humor, they always live on the fun side of life. Its never always too serious fo them.
    24. Alpha males know that they are important. When you call them (Unlike Beta males) they will take their time to turn their head and focus on you. You always have to prove worthy of their attention.
    25. Alpha males Demonstrate Strength. The kind of strength that will make a woman believe that she is safe with him and that he can protect her when it comes to that. Women are generally the weaker sex, and always look for comfort in Alpha males; men who are dominant. (Source Alpha Male Tips | Traits Of The Alpha Male)





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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Thank you very much everyone. I am wondering, What does it take to make a woman feel safe? Do I need to be in good shape to protect her physically? Thanks again.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Glad you asked this question. A woman feels safe based on two things, your behavior and how comfortable you make her feel. If you are confident and you seem certain, she will be comfortable following you anywhere. In essence, you have to the leader when it comes to the women you date. You don't have to be the alpha anywhere else if you don't want to but when it comes to dating, you are going to have to take the responsibility to lead, decide, and make most of the decisions because that is what a man does.

    Also make sure not to look more vulnerable than her is the general rule of thumb. If you make her comfortable, she will allow you to make more moves on her and even lead her all the way to the bedroom...that's my take on it.

    Friendliness with a new woman is crucial so that it is obvious that you are harmless to her. You have demonstrate this without appearing vulnerable, weak, or incapable of protecting yourself.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Thank you very much. 0000000000000000

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Hi there guys, I was doing some reading and thinking and wondering about some stuff. I have read that dominance is attractive to women and have also found that when I asked many webcam models if it is attractive if a man is stronger than her and if a man could beat her in a fight then that is attractive. I got lots of yesses. I think that maybe this leads to dominance and am thinking about back in caveman days and how rape was i think a lot more common back then and i was also thinking that maybe a woman is more likely to sleep with a man if she believes he is in good shape and stuff and am thinking that maybe a bigger penis was attractive because it had a higher chance of succeeding when a man forces himself on a woman in caveman times. And am thinking about how many female fantasies are said to be about a man forcing himself on a woman and I am thinking that maybe a woman fantasizes about that with a man when there is a possibility if it were caveman times that he could overpower her and have sex with her. Something like that. I am not ever going to rape a woman but was thinking that maybe when a woman thinks that a guy could have in evolutionary times then maybe that is attractive. Just a thought. Sorry for being scrambled. And I am sure that there is more to attraction than this. Because that seems likely to me. This might even be completley wrong. Im just putting the thought out there.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Now I am thinking I am wrong again guys. Now I am thinking that cavemen women would sleep with many of the guys of a group and maybe the more alpha the man the more he was able to keep the woman more to himself. : ) Maybe alpha is things like confidence also, I dont know.

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    Default Re: What makes a dominant man?

    Ok guys, I have rethought that and now I am thinking it is about status and how status can come from things like looking good or accomplishing something or helping people. I guess whatever gives you status among men. That is what the book Without Embarasment talks about. But then I am wondering about what gives you status with women.


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