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    hey guys this girl ive been dating for a few weeks just dropped real heavy commitment bomb on me, where she says she demands more time, she doesnt want to be looking for guys anymore, and wants to be "bf/gf"...
    i kinna feel in a way like i got played because she said she wanted to end it if not, so i complyed to give her what she wanted to hear,
    i like her n dont want to loose her, but i want to keep my options open n thatll b hard with her shell prob stalk my dating accounts now...
    dunno what u guys think? kinna dazed n confused atm

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    Default Re: the commitment bomb..

    That's not being played...
    THAT is a girl actually being UP FRONT with you.. (A rarity in the world of the female species!)

    She's genuinely attracted & interested in you, & willing to put forth the effort of building something meaningful.
    Don't be a clueless douche & misinterpret it as her being controlling or playing you...

    If YOU aren't interested in what she's looking for, then be up front with HER & tell her.
    But otherwise, there's nothing wrong AT ALL with what she said.


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    Default Re: the commitment bomb..

    thanks t-mal appriciate the advice n other perspective i wasnt seeing so much, but i dont think im ready for it esp since only met couple times, ok looks, and after this happened man i feel like im way less into her now, before i was excited to talk/see her, not so much now, like myb i was just into it for the chase.. Ai i think i messed up Itll be much harder breaking it off with her now which really not looking forward to but gues better sooner than later..


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