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    Default How to begin sex

    Iíve had sex just once in my life (with a whore by the way) and that was some weeks ago. I was afraid and didnít enjoy the experience as much as Iíd want. But that doesnít matter.

    The thing is, after some harsh events I began to read some pickup artistís stuff and finally could manage myself to get a girl and now comes the deal: this Monday I had the chance to fuck her but she was so passive, staying there looking at me and waiting for me to kiss or touch her or whatever.

    I fucked it up. I was too scared to do it, and I lost my chance and she went away angry. This is a hot babe and it looks like I still have a chance to have sex with her. Itíll be tomorrow and if I ruin it again I wonít be able to see myself in the mirror.

    My question is: what should I do? Should I grab her and kiss her? Should I touch her in the shoulder, the waist, the ass? Should I be aggressive?

    I feel embarrassed and like a pussy, and donít wanna be so. I could use some help.

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    Default Re: How to begin sex

    Before we start : You're German aren't you?

    AAAAAHHH shiness a man's worst enemy. A way I tell people to over come it is by thinking that sex is a natural and pleasurable thing for all parties involved. Women want to have sex just as much as men.

    Your lack of experience seems to be affecting your state of mind don't let it ! More than half the guys out there don't know what they are doing.

    If it's your penis length you're afraid of. Well I can tell you that a women can't take more than 12 cm so if you're above that then you're good to go. Furthermore, women don't notice length that much it's not like her eye is a ruler. Would you know the difference between an object that is 12 cm or 16 cm ? Size is just a fetish like big breasts, if a women has small breasts can't she ride the living shit out of you?

    Try the dicarlo escalation ladder it's on you tube. Aggressiveness is okay, but if she says stop you stop. Don't fuck around with this shit, you never know how she can spin it against you.

    Don't be embarrassed odds are she was pissed because she couldn't make you kiss her.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: How to begin sex

    Thanks.

    The chance didn't present itself so you may say I've some time before trying again.

    My state of mind was really affected, I just stayed like a statue.

    My penis size made me feel bad in my first time (some weeks ago) but now I didn't even worry about that, cause I couldn't even kiss her.

    I looked that dicarlo escalation ladder. Really appreciate it.

    Anyway, I think I could be more active, less like a pussy, but I'm not sure of it (I've little experience with woman overall). But, again, thank you. I owe you one dude.

    I'm not german, nor even know the language, but like it. By the way, if you find mistakes in my english is because it's not my first language.

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    Default Re: How to begin sex

    I agree with Xavier. In fact, I've even brought up in discussion with a woman to lower her bitch shield (it works) when she was stating "blah, blah, all men want/or is after is sex" to which I reply, "Oh baloney. Women like/love sex just as much as men, if not MORE! If I could have multiple orgasems, I'd like it a helluva lot more too." Its a state of mind; the species wouldn't continue if either one of us didn't want it.

    I do notice that your post was a few days ago (the 24th) and you said you'd be able to give it another go on the 25th. Did it go better than you thought? Heres my take….

    "she was so passive, staying there looking at me and waiting for me to kiss or touch her or whatever."
    She's going to be passive, bro. They all are. No woman pictures having to take charge when thinking of meeting the man of her dreams. Remember, YOU hold the broom.

    "My question is: what should I do?"
    I plan to look up the dicarlo thing after I post this, but this works for me. A crash course….only after getting a couple IOIs, to where you know she's warmed up, give the triangle gaze (eye, eye, mouth) to her, and she'll do it to you, without saying anything go in for the kill. If nothing is leading up to that, I'll go in for a sneak attack and just say, "hey" and start making out. To escalate, within the first few seconds, cradle her face with your hand and then run it through her hair as YOU pull away. Your other arm is around her waist keeping her close. Look in her eyes, triangle gaze, and go back in. As things heat up, over the clothes rubbing her ass is cool and maybe a small breast play over the clothes as well BUT here is where you find out if its on like donkey kong. Women will have that last minute resistance to make them think they're not a slut; not all, but most do. Its very easy for them to get to that point in wanting to "show" us they're not by pushing our arms away from the goods or brushing them off (all while still enjoying the make out. haha, wtf). To defeat this, and to "show" them its "OK", I take their hand and put it on MY junk all BEFORE I have mine under her clothes. It makes getting to her goods and removal of clothes easier if she's occupied and I know this is what we both want. Business pretty much takes care of itself after that.

    Heres hoping that helps the next time opportunity comes around.
    Cheers.

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    Default Re: How to begin sex

    All you need to do is stop being a pussy. That's it. You read the signs and you did nothing. Next time go in for the kiss. Everything you need to know after that is located here. https://www.puaforums.com/isolating-...rough-lmr.html

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    https://www.puaforums.com/isolating-...unication.html


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