Okay, so I met a girl on tinder, and we texted and flirted for two months. During those two months we've been on two dates only, since she's been busy with her finals and such. Here comes the weird part. Some days ago, she became less available, and that was understandable since she graduated from school, and her class/friends have to party and celebrate its over, so yea... She's busy and im giving her the space, no problem. So last saturday, I arranged her guestlist at a nightclub she normally can't enter, and when we met, she kept leaning on me, hugging me, and even held my hand (which i tried to do on our second date, where she (as she somehow resisted a bit) asked me why i "tried to hold her hand", and "what if someone saw us?", where I made a major mistake to let the hand go instead of saying, "i don't care if someone sees us). So we made out at the nightclub and a hour later she and her friend went home with a cab. I texted her, right before they took the cab, where she was, so i told her i was coming over to them to say goodbye to her. I arrived at the pizza place where she said she was at, only to see her and her friend trying to catch a cab (apparently she hadn't seen my message where i told her i was coming). I called after her, but she didn't hear me, and as she sat in the cab i somehow ran over to the cab, knocked on her door. She opened the door and laughed. She wanted to give me a hug, but i wanted to kiss her, but she kept turning her cheek to me, so I asked her "Hey, no kiss?" and she replied "nooo I just puked", where i immediately said, "I Don't Care" an then we kissed (just on the lips, don't wanna be nasty tho). After I said that and we kissed, her friend said "you are the sweetest guy ever". The day after I got some snaps from her lower waist (G-string and that), and then she fell asleep and apologized after and explained why she didn't answer (which is a typical behaviour from her). Later that day, I asked her if she "wanted to chill at my place or hers, take a trip downton, or on the moon, she decides", and she told me that she could't make it that day, because she had to eat with a male friend of hers. She sent me snaps from his room so I don't think there was more into it that friendship from his side, I actually don't care about that (because im the shit and im handsome looking, and im.. yeah cool lol). So anyways, the day after that I asked her if she wanted to hang out here one of the days in this week, and she said yea, and i said 'cool, we can talk about that later', because I don't want to be too pushy since she's pretty busy partying after she's graduated. But yea, she still sends me snaps from her nights out, and no I do not respond to them, why should I, unless she asks me something or anything else directly, right? *Bear with me, its almost over*. Yesterday, I asked her if we would stumple in each other during the night in town (yea, out drinking on a tuesday idc.) and she replied "Maybe ;-)". I said "cool! Great night last night?" and she replied "yeaaaa", nothing more, so I didn't answer that message, there is no content to answer?. Its just that i feel her answers are becoming more and more boring, it feels like she's loosing interest, and then on the other hand, she might be hangover from last night etc. But no we didn't meet that night, I went home quite early, and she didn't snap me at all, so i was like fuck that...
TODAY *breathing heavily* (and thats where I think i might be pushy), i asked her: "Bromigo, are you ready to make me that *traditional dinner from where we come from*, before I head to South-europe?". Im leaving for vacation and I won't be home before 20 days or so, so I wanted to see her, maybe go all the way, but she haven't seen my message over facebook yet (its been 7/8 hours, it has occurred that she haven't seen my messages but its not common).
So what do I do?
1. Do I type a "?" in our chat on facebook, to point to the message above (or a diffrent example you can bring up?)
2. So I just leave it be because its game over and I should move on?
3. Should I leave it be, and just text her when I come back home (what should I text?).
4. Something diffrent, please explain.
I like this girl, i see potential in her actually, and she seems kinda shy sometimes, its really hard to explain. There is no doubt we've been attracted to each other, its just weird how she is now, is it just me overthinking or? I just don't want to waste time on her if she totally lost interest. If there is hope I want to fix, what has to be fixed, and do what has to be done to get her.