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    Hi guys I met a girl on tinder when she first swiped me I sent her a nice message not really using any tactics just a chilled message and she replied and from there we got on like a house on fire chatted for three days then started talking about sex she is divorced for a year now and she doesn't sleep around but she is getting horny this all according to her anyway I met her for lunch the thing is we both have a hectic month at work and I am going about 50 miles away for work at lunch gave a good bye hug and kiss and said we both have a hectic month not sure if we can make time to see each other she she would definitely meet up with me anyway lots texting and her calling me at night the thing is we have deep conversations and we talk a lot. A few days after she stopped replying to my texts but she would reply one or two and she stopped phoning so I totally cut off for three days then contacted her just to say hi it was all good last night were chatting till one in the morning. When we first met she said she would only let a man who had the golden ticket sleep with her and I told her I would get it.Last night she said she didn't think the adventurer in me took coffee breaks from looking for the golden ticket I laughed it off and said we both agreed after this month we will meet up and then I said I already had the golden ticket she just didn't know it. After that we fell asleep this morning she text me to say I didn't have the golden ticket and I wouldn't be getting it she said she was honoured that I even wanted it. She then said I was a lovely guy and that she would like me to be on her life forever but that she realised there was no "chemistry " but her friend had told her that we were in the best place to start a relationship cause we were good friends and everything else would grow.she also said that the chemistry might come later and thay she wasn't closing the door totally just not now? We have a dinner date next week and she mentioned she wasn't cancelling and absolutely she wanted to go for dinner.Looking back I can see I smothered her sometime three long texts to her short one and be she took great pains to explain to me hiw her marriage messed up. Some bavk round she is extremely successfull work wise and very confident she has two kids so is very self conscious of her body but things her face is a masterpiece to be fair I would rate her a 7 and she is a slight bit big on the body. I am nowhere near as successfull as her but we get on she says she loves my intellect and the way I talk she has praised my looks in the past and she did swipe right on tinder.he only other complaint as that even though we talk on a deep level I was always deep I should lighten up and she also said I read into things that are not there.I got a special gift the other after telling me that she didn't need any gifts and after doing my research it was something special that practically brought her to tears and rendered her speechless. Guys I need you help I know that came across to strong and needy is there any hope of me rescuing this I could just chill and be her friend but it's a challenge now. One last thing when used to talk about sex she would say she needed a man in the bed who put her in her place and be dominant.Excuse the long post and the crap grammar it's ironic that part of she likes is the way I right.

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    Default Re: HELP a newbie please

    I don't even know why I bothered to read this actually. You admit your grammar sucked but at least use some punctuation and line spacing. I know you have a lot going on your mind but we need you to pace them for us to understand if you want us to help.

    Now, that golden ticket bs was just a test. She wanted to see if you'll be running after her to have sex. And you actually accepted that bs and made a conversation out of it. You should have brushed it off instead. With that ticket talk in play, she now sees you as she sees other typical men and that's why you feel like you don't have a chance with this chick.

    You must stand out. You must not do what other men does. Stop validating yourself over her actions. She swiped right on Tinder so what, she opened up to you so what? I'm not saying these are bad things but you don't get to use these to boost your ego. Even if you start a relationship with her, you'll just depend on her attention and that's not really alpha.

    Do not depend on what other people say. Only depend on yourself. Just go out there and get her. Don't let her impose any other outcome. Don't play her game. Play your own.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: HELP a newbie please

    Thanks for that wolf 24 and sorry about the spaces paragraphs etc I was overthinking it and typed it up on my phone on the train home


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