SO you might have read this part before:
I'm working on a girl that is in a relationship, it's a puppylove thing, her second real relationship. it has lasted 8 months so far. I'm not trying to end it, it will end naturally. I just want to be the obvious choice once it does. We fooled around once some weeks ago (but her BF doesn't know she cheated, she lied. told him I made a move and she said no)
she is currently on vacation with her family, a 3 week trip away from both me and her BF.
We have so far been speaking every day of her trip so far.
The other day I saw a poster for a commonality interest between use, which is a concert, classical music. I took a picture of it, and during the conversation today, at a high, I asked if she wanted to go. Then send the poster. She says yes in various different ways from yeeeeees! To full caps, to "yes?". Lets just say she said yes.
A little later she backtracked and said "I can't go with your, my BF wouldn't like it. And I don't want to lie to him"
I'm simplifying now, but I basically accepted and said I understand your feelings. But you've been waiting for a concert like this for some time, it'd be too dumb to not be able to see it because of such rules.
She replied "you're right, I'll go!
And I replied "I know you will, hence why I orders the tickets like half an hour ago"
She replied "you're kidding, right? You serious?" "we can't!, it's not right, I can't go with you. I want to, but I can't"
I replied "Liston, the ticket is orders, in your name. I'll "lose it" at a seven eleven or somethin'. We're not going together. But you're going. We have similar interests. If we were to meet randomly at such an event, no rules are broken."
Then she seemed to cave. "You're right! I'm shoo hyped!" "I've been waiting for something like this for ages!"
I'm planning on setting up a met a little early to have a glass or two of wine before the concert. But how would you play out the concert? Should I treat her like a friend? Or should I just game her as always?
Also, a classical music orchestra concert event ain't the sexiest of venues, so I'm thinking I'll be using this for comfort building, but should I show little interest? Not sure if I'm formulating myself in a bad way now or what. But it boils down to "how would you play the situation?"