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Thread: How to game a stripper?

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    Default How to game a stripper?

    Hey, all.

    I met this Hb9 stripper at the strip club. We chat for bit, after like 15 minutes-I get her a drink.

    Of course she asked for a dance, but I turned her down ( once they get that , they leave)

    She kept coming back to my table the whole night, and we built a great connection.

    I didn't hit or flirt with her at all- trying to separate myself from every other guy.

    We ended up talking straight for two hours- then she gave me a free admissions pass till December.

    I didnt ask for her number yet- my plan is to wait till i see her a couple times more before making a move.

    So anyone with advice? My goal is f-close.

    Should I attempt to pull back next time?

    Is it true that you shouldnt flirt right away with strippers?

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    advice anyone? Im seeing her again this Friday.

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    kind of hard ... reason y she in a strip club is for money
    only way u can get her u have to finesse her
    sell her a dream.. ex. we can do this together.. u can take her here.. basically you have to show off like u have money

    but if u have been talkin for 2 hours and built a connection jus ask for the number .. and u want to take her out.. if she denies jus go back and sell her dreams lol

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    Is it true that you shouldnt flirt right away with strippers?
    ah, the way to win a stripper is to do what no other guys are doing at the strip club. sit down and have a normal conversation. tease her, find some common ground, and relate to her. this means, no dances, no telling her how hot she is, only casual touching, and casual eye contact. you need to seem completely unfazed by her physical appearance. tell her how smart she is, or how unique her point of view is. make her wait for anything sexual.

    [QUOTE][basically you have to show off like u have money
    /QUOTE]

    that is just a sound strategy for bringing emotionally damaged gold diggers into your life. I do not recommend that strategy with strippers, especially since many of them are sociopaths by trade who will use you in any way they can.

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    thanks meteora, good advice.

    so Im gonna see her this week, again at the s club.

    how long do I wait till I make my move?

    can I ask her home next time, I see her or do I keep building comfort?

    Im worried that, if I don't get sexual soon, she will friend zone me.

    thanks in advance.

    thanks akadreday also

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    always make moves right away to avoid friend zone
    make a move right away wen you get to chance to chill with her
    ask her to come home with u jokely .. or offer her a ride to her house if she doesnt have a ride

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    how long do I wait till I make my move?

    can I ask her home next time, I see her or do I keep building comfort?
    if you're having a fun time together laughing it up, casually invite her back to your place. don't worry about "making a move" focus on building a genuine connection. if the attraction is there, she should have no problem going with you to have some waffles and wine (hint hint, the waffle iron is a huge hit with drunk party girls, its easy to use and who doesn't like waffles?) (and yes, you should have wine in your fridge at all times, its an easy way to set the calm and relaxed kind of mood)

    the main idea is that you should be low pressure throughout the interaction. this keeps her calm and relaxed and prevents you from getting all nervous. there's no need to "make a move" until she's hinting that you should (pay attention to eye contact, touching, tone of voice and proxemics. you'll know when the mood is right)

    always make moves right away to avoid friend zone
    this is rarely a good strategy when dealing with hired guns. sometimes, being friends with them is actually better than quickly closing.

    example: I had a stripper friend who I flirted with occasionally, but didn't think much of it. I had met her at a bar and didn't really feel like she was all that into me when I first hung out with her. I hadn't talked to her for a while, and out of the blue she asked me if I would give her a ride home from work (I just so happened to be at a nearby concert that night) so I agreed to take her home on the condition that she would feed me something. on the way back to her place I teased her quite a bit. long story short, I ate while she took a shower, and she came out into the living room with just a towel on, she dropped it to the floor and got on top of me...

    being friend zoned is only a bad thing if you're a low value guy who obsesses over one girl who he hasn't had sexual relations with. if you never put any girls in the "relationship zone" you will never truly be "friend zoned". besides, having female friends is a good thing.

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    Default Re: How to game a stripper?

    very good advice meteora! Im gonna see her and get back to you on my progress.


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