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    Hi all I met this chick at a restaurant and we hit it off, we walked along the beach I made the first move and we did alot of kissing, we had to leave after 2 hours because she said she felt cold, and said tomorrow we can meet and I warm her up, I said I could warm her up tonight but she said she had to work early, which I believe to be true so didnt push things, the next day she messaged and said her nan was taken to hospital and she shortly after passed away, obviously I said sorry to hear this and I backed for a while, I messaged her over a week later and she said I didnt message her and she missed me, could we meet tomorrow, I thought it was pretty awesome I made her attraction levels high enough to miss me after meeting me for just one night, anyway we met the next day and I shower her my apartment, we had sex now theres something new for me here , she told me the first night she is a lesbian and when I first whipped my dick out she said she had only been with girls, so ok I took control and she seemed to really enjoy the experience (but women are good at faking lol) anyway we cuddled and kissed a while after, then she said she had to leave because her boss was calling her, which was maybe true, her phone was constantly going off in the bedroom... so I fucked up and txt her that night and said I hope she was comfortable in my apartment (shit move on my part but you live and learn) I back off again and text her four days later (should wait longer) and said hey when are you free to get together again, she replied I am not going away for work next week so we could arrange for in the week or we could do tomorrow. I didnt want to seem to availible (tomorrow would have been saturday afterall) and I said in the week is fine, she replied Tuesday is better, I replied with ok I'll see you on Tuesday have a good weekend, I then reliased I hadnt set a time and said is 7pm ok to which she replied I will talk to you because I don't know if im working late. So I said that is fine let me know when you can and bring a bottle of wine with you. So tuesday is today and she didnt txt me or let me know anything, just straight up stood me up, I made alot of fuck ups and I think I should walk away and maybe she'll come back, or maybe she won't text ever again which is a shame because I do really like her... can anyone give some advice or there thoughts on this situation it would be greatly appreciated, I did my best to set a definite date and I got stood up, I will be more assertive next time so at least I have learned one of many lessons.

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    Default Re: stood up

    Back off and text her in a few months/weeks from now, give her time to miss you. Then just play it cool and act like nothing wrong happened whenever you feel like texting her again.

    Talk about fun thing you did together so she reminds what a cool time she had with you and wants to hook up again.

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    Hey thanks sounds like the right thing to do, havnt made contact since and I met her while visiting brazil im here for another month and half... when/what to write? She was teaching me portuguese and we also had a fun night at the beach, my txt game is bad any videos refs to help me out?

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    Just make her curious, start with something like "Hey something reminded me of you today", and then tell her something about you hearing some Brazilian girls and understanding a little bit about what they said thanks to what she taught you, or you can also write something funny like:

    -"Hdufhfd djhfuhf sidjoigjfs".
    (wait for her to respond)
    - "I was trying to write Portuguese, did it work? LOL"
    (wait for her to answer again)
    -"Damn, I need more lessons".

    Several guys will give you different advices, I'll tell you to search "texting pua" in Google and Youtube so you can investigate a little more, learn, practice, and adapt the techniques that you think work the best for your kind of personality. You know what I mean?, don't try to be funny if you aren't, don't try to act cool if it looks awkward on you, go find something that matches your style. Good luck.

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    Default Re: stood up

    That's been my dream!! To lay a girl who is a lesbian... congrats!
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    I'm no expert and i don't know if these tips will actually help you, but i'm.going to share these anyway. I've improved my text/online game alot lately and i've started to notice some patterns and i'm now able to anylize my convos for future learning.

    Tips:
    * Be cool, don't reply instantly!
    * NEVER doubletext!
    * Try to be sexual starting from the first convo.
    * Don't ask boring and yes or no questions.
    * Don't try to be funny, if you think "Will that make her laugh??" you'll fail. Trust me, only jokes you wanna make are the ones you think that are actually funny.
    * Have fun, make up stories with you and her doing something fun, sexual.
    * Make up funny nicknames, related to her. Like what you talked about early, or what she's wearing etc. The best one i've used is "blondu" it's simple yet effective. You can tell her "blondu" if she has blonde hair or if she sounds like dumb person, i'm sure she actually isn't dumb, but everyone has that "dumb" moment
    *Last and most imprtant, anylize your messages. Find out what worked, what not etc.

    I got girls bombing me with messages and this is thanks to this "system". Maybe this will work for you or maybe not, but i recommend you to try it out. And check also sticky posts under texting/online game forum. I will post some of my convos for anylizing someday, so smarter people can guide me and give me some tips what to do and what not to do ��

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    Haha glad to hear I completed someones dream but I do feel abit letdown by this girl, tried the advice and txted the 'hjdsi dksk dksoo' and got the dreaded blue tick with no response, would you guys recommend wait 24hours and I delete her off facebook? I have new chicks in line which is what I should be doing right? Odsilos?

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    don't delete her, act cool and uneffected, wait some time before texting her again maybe even a couple of months, work on other girls before you start falling for this girl completely and work on your game with other girls, not only for the girl you're stressing out for at the moment but mostly, for yourself and ofcourse - us, members of PUA forums, so be smart and aloof about this situation and make us proud

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    This sucks, cant focus on my job or anything, women!

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    Default Re: stood up

    distract yourself.. stop making her the most important thing in your life, she has NOT contributed to your life for it to be better there for she doesn't deserve that much attention of yours, especially when she is just making you stressed.

    here's a mindset for you - WAIT a few months, work on other girls, perfect your game, then after those 2 months when you text her she will see and know that there are a lot of women in your life (which raises your value very very much) and your game will be much better so you won't make rookie mistakes and will be able to woo her off her feet when you interact with her after this break. Enjoy the process of perfecting your game, because it will help you out a lot with this girl you can't get out of your head.


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