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    Default What should i do??

    So theres this girl, shes hot and cool and i like her. We've been going out for few days now and idk what to do and when do escalate?? She dated my cousin for 2 yrs xD They broke up 8 months ago. My question is how to pull and push and when to escalate. Id should i compliment her, kino someway or anything?? Idk does she have feelings for me, but she asks me out everyday xD I said to her that "The secret is every guyfriend you have will be having feelings for you" She replied "Idk do i like you or not, but i just like calling you out, not some random person"

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    easy .. soo as you chill with her .. easiest thing for you to do .. you go over each other house.. put on netflixs.. or watch a movie.. instantly cuddle with her and make the first move 10-20 mins in the movie and the rest is easy after that but other than that u should alway be flirt with her and touch her and hugging her

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Theres no way we can get to any place to watch a movie. I'm still living with my parents and siblings and we're sharing really small apartment, so yeah.

    So i got some random tails that i know are interested in me, but i really would like to try with this girl. Idk how i should flirt with her, it's weird. I'm always thinking what should i do, instead of doing anything. And when i'm always in my head, she starts leading the convo.

    All i've accomplished are some friendly hugs, and that with 3 days of going out. Idk what should i try. I just don't know if shes interested or not, idk. Should i just go for the kiss when we're out or should i ask her does she like me more than a friend. I'm ready to fail, after all i need to prepare myself for rejections.

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Don't ask her if she likes you. Next time you see her you need to go for the kiss. In the future, if you like a girl, you need to go for the kiss the first time you hang out. You will lose WAY WAY more women by trying to kiss them too late then too early. You NEED to go for the kiss the next time you see her.

    There's one golden rule you must live by that has never failed me. If she's hanging out with you she likes you!

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Okay, so i thought i'd make a plan. Like usually we are hanging out in nighttime. And when i'm sending her home, we hug and go to seperate ways. So what about after the hug, i take her look her into the eyes and say "Your eyes are fucking beatiful" and then i go for the kiss???

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Don't calculate it. Let it happen as you feel it. Did she do or say something that could be mildly sexualized? Do that. Are you noticing her body, hair, a feature on her face, her perfume? Point that out. Are you two walking along alone, side by side? Bump into her a bit.

    The key is to make sure there's no pressure behind anything you do or say and that it's mainly fun. You're cheeky when you're doing this. The time to get all serious and growly is after she's really turned on. Start small and get more explicit if it's clear she's into it. Escalation is called that because it's usually gradual.

    (Source is mainly Krauser, who I think has this sort of thing down to a science.)

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Just go to the movies, so simple yet so effective.
    As soon as you get your arm around her, that's a great sign that she's comfortable with your touching, which means she would also like to kiss you. Talk to her face to face and kiss her, don't over-think it, just do it. Grab her face and say something, then look at her eyes, and then at her mouth, and then just get closer slowly and kiss her.

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    I don't have a movie theater in my city xD But i've developed really good eyecontact. I'm not afraid to hold a seductive eyecontact or to kino her, kiss her. I just want to know how to read the signs??

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Well, the place doesn't matter, just make sure to isolate her, then go kino and go for the kiss, just the fact that she let's you get closer and closer to her it's a sign. Don't think about it, just do it.

    I'll advice to search youtube for a video called "Mystery Method Pickup Artist Live Training - LMR" to see one of many good kino techniques. Good luck.

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    Default Re: What should i do??

    Hey direct is best, what do you mean by "if a women hangs out with you, she likes you"?
    I've invited girls to coffee dates millions of times-only to be rejected later back at my place, when I go for a kiss.

    If a women gets a coffee with you, is that hanging out?

    What if she meets up with you somewhere together?


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