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Thread: How do you ask a girl out?

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    Default How do you ask a girl out?

    I usually say , " can I take you out?" which 99% of the time results in " I have a boyfriend/ am married"

    Or the girl says yes , after which I number close-then of course she flakes.

    Now when I'm indirect, " let's get coffee sometime" she says yes, but when I'm on the coffee "date" and I try to make my move- I get rejection " I didn't know you wanted that"

    so what is the strategy? Being indirect gets me friend zoned many times, but being straight leads to rejection.

    Any Advice?

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    Default Re: How do you ask a girl out?

    That's easy instead of asking you tell them. "I want to take you out..." or "I'm going to take you out for coffee" or "You're very interesting. I want to take you out". Instead of asking them you're telling them what you want.

    Honestly my rule of thumb is this "if a woman is hanging out with me she wants me". It never fails me. If you get a woman out and she rejects your move it's most likely something you did prior to the move or HOW you made the move. Think back to your situations and try to figure that out. Women aren't dumb and they rarely agree to meet up with a random guy if they aren't interested in him.

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    Default Re: How do you ask a girl out?

    Don't make it special, make it seem like you're already doing something and you just want her to join you. Make her enter your world.

    Example: I'm going to the game on Thursday, you can go if you want to. Just tell me soon because someone made an offer for my extra ticket.

    Another one would be to make it sound awesome or use something she said as a tease:
    There's this chinese place I went yesterday, it's awesome, just eating there is an adventure. You said you're adventurous, we should go.

    There are hundreds of different ways to do it, just say it with confidence and make sure to create rapport before doing it, that way you'll get a yes for sure.


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