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    Default Girl in the office

    Around 6 months back I approached a girl in my office in the cafeteria. (we don't work together)
    I have talked to her a few times but things seem to be getting nowhere.
    She sometimes shows some very strong IOIs example:
    * Smiles when she sees me (but only when not many people are around)
    * Circles me when she sees me with a different girl
    * I have seen her friends and her giggling when I come
    Strange behavior:
    * Once she was with a guy sitting far away from me and saw me. She then actually came and sat a few seats next to me with that guy (that was weird) . I did not gave her the attention though.
    * Although she knows me by now but sometimes totally ignores me even if I am standing just few inches next to few and sometimes she herself comes to me to say hi (but does not wait to talk)
    Flaking:
    * earlier she used to reply to me on office communicator but now does not reply
    * Whenever I do meet her she always seems to be in a hurry to leave
    * once I was about to number close but she suddenly disappeared
    Confused behavior:
    * she was in an elevator and then I came, couldn't talk as there were people between us. We had to go to the same floor when the floor came she did not come out ( this has happen 3-4 times)

    What should I do?

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    Default Re: Girl in the office

    WHAT should you do ?????? Stop pussy footing around and go direct with her " you look like a very adventurous person and I would love to get to know you outside of work so we should go grab a coffee soon " ..... make your intentions clear and put the ball in her court
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Girl in the office

    Yeah, just go for her or ignore her, don't sit in the middle, get out of your comfort zone. I think maybe she has a boyfriend or there's some other reason why she doesn't want to be seen hooking up with you, whatever, just make your move and find that by yourself.


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