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    hoboman233 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default quite confused.. I think

    Hey guys whats up? long time no see. this website helped me form a relationship with this girl i really liked bout a year. we went our seperate ways recently. so i have been getting back into the whole pua thing.

    Though i had to move because an IT support job across town couple hours from where i used to live.
    I try to go back each week to hang with buds and help out my family to.

    2 weeks ago while i was there i met this girl and we connected..alot. got her number and manged to hook up a date the following week.

    so we are on our date everything goes well i managed to get back to her house we cuddle in bed watch a movie and i kiss her. resistance. So i figured id try again later and act like nothing happened. Though ii fell asleep lool


    so no sex. cant believe im saying this but i didnt escalate enough on my part in the most perfect situation i could have ever asked for.
    Next morning i had to leave quite early for work so i kissed her good bye.

    Soo i setup another date couple days later with her for when im back in town. which was this week

    didnt go so well. i mean it did, kissed, kino, walk in parkn watch the sunset, hung out with my friends, but she was really stressed the whole time and told me she just had a bad break up not longo and whatnot.

    kinda ended date tad bit early she didnt invite me in this time but said we can do something tomorrow if im still here, told her maybe kissed her good bye.

    so you know im just confused here. You guys think i should go see her today or wait until next week? i feel like im caught in my own failure and cant think straight so i want to wait, but the otherside says go see her today

    anybody have any tips or where i am going wrong, or if im doing good, what would a mpua do here? not implying they would be in such limbo like me hah

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    Default Re: quite confused.. I think

    Check out the threads that talk about blasting through LMR. There's a ton of them. When in doubt, search

    Also, things like "it's OK; we'll stay in your comfort zone" work wonders especially when you back off completely.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    hoboman233 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: quite confused.. I think

    Well mission complete! This time I didn't fall asleep

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    Default Re: quite confused.. I think

    alright.. let me tell you what I personally think you're doing wrong, you went on your first date, you tried to initiate sex yet she resisted, she told you she just got out of a relationship, what does this mean by you?.. she doesn't want to just have sex like that, the reason she cuddled with you was because you built enough attraction, but in order to get someone to get sex with you requires a bit more comfort building, so just try to keep things slow, keeps your meat in your pants, don't try to pressure her about it, she's already stressed. So my advice for you, normally I'd say build comfort and etc. but in this case - keep building attraction, comfort, tell her that you're ok with taking things slow, focus on getting her really attracted, to the point of arrousal, kino escalate ofcourse, but let her break first and go from foreplay to sex instead of rushing it yourself, unless you want to risk the LMR, cheers


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