I don't know what to do and I need your help.
I'm currently working with a girl and we make a great team at our company. She is really nice. We lunch always together, we talk a lot about everything and sometimes we exchange text messages while outside work. Outside work she has lots of guys (she says that are friends) and girls inviting her for dinner, cinema and so on, so she is always busy. Sheís single and Iím too.
Also, she usually makes some kino, touching me in the arms/hands before start telling some kind of story and we also make a lot of eye contact while talking about personal or professional stuff.
I know that she has lots of male friends outside work but I donít know how she behaves with them.
We are spending a lot of time together over the last months so I am start having some questions in my mind. My problem is that if I show interest and she rejects, thereís an huge chance that things wonít be the same again and could damage our work. Iím at an important position with a bright future ahead and I donít want to ruin everything.
How should I know if she is interested in something more than a good friendship/working partner without taking risks or putting our work in danger?
She is not stupid and I am worried that if I invite her to dinner or something else outside work she would start thinking that I want something else from her and things could become weird (because we see each other every day) and damage our work.
Is there any shitty test that I could do? any ideas?