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Thread: towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

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    Default towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

    I hope this doesn't get misunderstood, but what are some techniques for building (fast or slow) towards gf-closing girls who have been suffering from quite a bit of depression?

    (Note that I say gf-closing and not f-closing. I think it's out of order and exploitative to establish the required deep emotional connection with the aim just of a ONS or looking no further than f-closing with such girls.)

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    Default Re: towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

    1 word for you - Comfort, ofcourse she needs attraction like every single girl, but despite that attraction neediness she much more needs to know that you'll be there for her, cause when you're feeling like shit the last thing you need is wondering if or if not someone is going to abandon you. Show loyalty, trust, connection but definetely don't forget attraction cause that's a huge part of getting a gf, even if she is depressed, make her know that you'll be her rock and she'll be taken care of, cheers

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    Default Re: towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

    Thanks alergy. Any tips on how to tweak the attraction so that the comfort, which I'm getting a lot of, doesn't overwhelm it and point towards the FZ?

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    Default Re: towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

    when building comfort be playful in the end of the conversation and kino escalate or even neg, it's cruicial that you demonstrate that you want to be more than friends or even be verbal about it, game her like you would a normal girl but definetely make her get the idea about long term

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    Default Re: towards a gf-close when a girl has been depressed a lot?

    Quote Originally Posted by tonyp View Post
    Thanks alergy. Any tips on how to tweak the attraction so that the comfort, which I'm getting a lot of, doesn't overwhelm it and point towards the FZ?
    There's no such thing as too much comfort and rapport if you just make a move and make your intentions known. The only way you get into the "friendzone" is by not making a move or showing neediness/unconfident behavior.


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