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    been a long time since I posted a question to this forum instead of answering it so I'll make it sweet and simple, the whole PU revolves around speed seduction which is just phase 1 to getting a number and what not. But what are YOUR mindsets tricks game tactics - call them what you want, in keeping and building the attraction in the long run which is before a gf close or after it, all the gambits (book game) will only get you so far so this is more of a question to those who have settled down or have had a pretty fufilling LTR. I'm not planning on doing so anytime soon because I want my game to be flawless up until then not only for my sake but for the future gf aswell, just incase you were wondering. The reason I need your opinions on this because I want to have a backpack filled with arsenal, to spread the message to my real friends who are in LTR's and because you never know when it'll come in handy. There are no wrong answers, just different scenarios and experiences with different women so please don't hezitate and share your experience, everything will be very much appreciated.

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    Default Re: opposite of speed seduction

    But what are YOUR mindsets tricks game tactics
    building long term relationships and making them last boils down to one thing, maybe the hardest thing anyone has to ever master in their lifetime: building a strong personal identity.

    that's right. a strong identity is over half of what you need to get girls period.

    no one in the pua community really mentions this aspect of game. reason being: if you have a strong enough identity, you don't need game. (and that means their products are obsolete to you)

    think about it, pua's don't stress the importance of good dhv's anywhere near enough.

    imagine this,

    you're successful in every way you can imagine: good friends, a kick ass job, some things you're passionate about, always trying new experiences, and meeting new people: living the life you want to live!

    what girl is going to turn a guy like that down? maybe a really dumb one who's way too full of herself.

    if he has any shred of game, he's got it made.

    create a strong reality of your own, and broadcast it. that's all you need to do to have plenty of women in your life.

    where do most pua's get it wrong? they focus far too much on the "tips and tricks" aspect of it and no where near enough on the self improvement aspect.

    the majority of them are lazy people who want a shortcut in life. they want a line or a phrase that will make women come to them.

    few are dedicated to actually bettering their lifestyle to attract women.

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    Default Re: opposite of speed seduction

    yeah that's the reason why I'm not a big fan of text book game cause it's not coming from the guy she's interacting, you make a good point about self improvement and having a strong identity, that's something I already knew and think is the most important part if the whole PU because when I pick up, I don't put up an act that I don't need her and that I'm not a chaser, that's just part of my personality as a human being and not a few lines I read online that are going to make me reak of confidence yet fade away after using all the known gambits to project the fake self image. Yet, you still didn't answer my question 100% about the whole attraction building when in a relationship even though the self image and what not is cruicial aswell - no questions asked

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    Yet, you still didn't answer my question 100% about the whole attraction building when in a relationship even though the self image and what not is cruicial aswell - no questions asked
    bottom line, if you're a high value guy, all you need to do to maintain your relationship is to maintain your high value and keep communicating. keep building upon the connection you have established, and don't get too predictable.

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    I love the don't get too predictable part, that's really a good way to keep intrigue in a relationship but I was wondering more about not the strong connection building and keeping the relationship from staling out but rather on what are the best ways to arouse your woman in a LTR whenever you want

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    rather on what are the best ways to arouse your woman in a LTR whenever you want
    ah, you're worried about the one thing that matters, keeping her from cutting off the sex. lol
    (the best way to do that is to be a master in the bedroom)

    as far as creating arousal at random times, I like using state transference. basically you use seductive body language to create a mild form of de ja vu from the last time she had sex. if it sounds complicated, you're overthinking it, all you really need to do is give her bedroom eyes and talk in a slow seductive tone. (practice it in the mirror till you get the idea of what "seductive" body language looks and feels like.)

    (if you want the full explanation of sexual state transference feel free to read "gunwitch method" by gunwitch (its fairly short and posted to various other forums, google search it)

    best ways to arouse your woman in a LTR whenever you want
    some nlp gurus like ross Jeffries and N10SE have stuff for this, but I don't recommend clouding your mind with the complexities of the pseudoscience.... (though to be fair, "sexual state transference" or state transference in general is technically an NLP technique )


    bottom line, the best way to keep getting sex, is to have damn good sex.


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