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Thread: Not pua related question, but still important

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    Default Not pua related question, but still important

    So i know you guys train yourself how to get girls, but what about "gaming" friends?? I'm the kinda friend who never gets invited to anywhere. I mean, many times i just stay home on weekends, because no one invites me to anywhere. I'm always the one who calls them, idk why. Maybe because i feel lonely and depressed. So can you give me some tips i should start doing and maybe some things i shouldnt do 😁😁😁😁😁
    "It's all about the journey, not the destination. After all the destination of life is death" - Owen Cook

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    Default Re: Not pua related question, but still important

    can't really help you much until you honestly talk about how you act around them, how they treat you and etc. but from what I can see right now you're obviously lacking HV in that circle of friends, the fact thaf they don't ask you to hangout and you ask them because you're selling yourself and acting needy by always reaching out first, they think that you are always waiting to hangout with them which really makes you lose value in the group. It could even be your depression that makes it uncomfortable for them to be around you, I'm starting to make theories right now due to the fact that I lack insight on your situation, give more if you wish to receive more

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    Default Re: Not pua related question, but still important

    Hmmm, so how i act around them?? Idk, just talking and having fun. Alot of times they put me down, i'm the one whos being mocked. Many times i tell them to call me when they go somewhere, but that never happens. And later when i call them, they say theire some bar etc, and i should come, idk am i needy?? So basically i'm inviting myself to hangout with them. When we talk on fb, i'm the one starting convo, only if they need something, then i'm a "good friend". How to increase value in the group??

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    Default Re: Not pua related question, but still important

    when they put you down don't react a lot and don't get offended, either ignore them or take it as a shit test and playfully put them on the spot. It's obvious that guys like to compete, and ofcourse the #1 thing that they compete about - sexual encounters so use that to your advantage and when you're at a bar go game a girl without saying a word, making sure they watch you do and coming back with her number, the look on their faces will be priceless when they see the lowest value member of the group do what none of them had the balls to, you can try to talk about your sex life and it's success but it's too show-off ish and you'll only be seen as a tryhard. another thing, yes you are indeed needy and get rid off that neediness even though it's their.. how? act as if you don't need them and don't blow up their phones to hangout because the last thing someone need is an unwantes tag-along, fake it 'till you make it. also be very playful, make them laugh, have a good time and ASSUME AUTHORITY.

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    Default Re: Not pua related question, but still important

    How i fake it?? I decided to not call them at all, instead waiting for them to call me. But i think, this will never happen. I just realized, that i have the same problem with every friend i have. How i'm supposed to game in club, alone?? Like srsly everytime i go to club i bump myself up with good emotions, have fun with my friends etc.

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    Default Re: Not pua related question, but still important

    Just make it seem like you have better plans, if they don't call you in a while, don't stress out, this does NOT mean you have to play mind games and wait till they need you but rather showing that you're doing good without them so if they don't invite you anywhere - don't call them for like a few weeks and then randomly ask to hang out and not making it seem like those weeks without them were boring, use DHV spikes in your stories to get more value in your social group.

    You can go alone to a club or with people who aren't yet friends but rather colleagues or what not, make a wider circle of friends, I don't even understand why you need the approval of those who don't even appreciate your presence, but if you still need to be with them - your call, but use your head not only my advice with exact steps on what to do, I'm just trying to give you a mindset for what I think is best for getting value in the group. #1 don't be needy (don't make it seem like you NEED their presence, you can always have better plans and everyone can be replaced) #2 Assume DOMINANCE #3Using DHV spikes in your stories #4guys always compete about their sex life, make them see the Casanova in you #5 Be playful and funny - huge difference from being stupid and immature.

    You my friend, are over-thinking this way too much..


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