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    KamiSamir is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Date with an "ugly" girl (I'm not interested): What to do??

    Hi guys,

    I will call them "ugly girl" and "cute girl" just to differentiate. (doesn't mean she is super ugly lol)

    So there was this ugly girl (that I am not interested in) that I met a while ago that kept sending me text messages saying that she would like to see me again, and inviting me for cinema, go to bars with her and so on. I always got excuses to not go on a date with her because I was interested in another girl (a cute one), however a while ago the cute girl rejected me in a polite way and I was friendzoned, so one hour later I decided to call the other girl (the ugly one) and invited her to a date (she obviously said yes in a happy way).

    Now I regret the invitation that I’ve made because she doesn’t attract me, but its too late and I don’t want to be a jerk..so how should I behave at the “date”? she thinks that I invited her because I’m interested so if I get there and tell her “lets just be friends” or “you’re nice but I’m interested in someone else” would it be awkward? Or would it be more awkward to make small talk during the entire date and then finish it as soon as possible?

    What should I do? I feel very stupid right now

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    Default Re: Date with an "ugly" girl (I'm not interested): What to do??

    make your intentions clear but do it subtly, don't come off too strong, and not only for yourself but for her as well, if you just leave quick she's still going to think that it was a date and that you want to be more than friends, don't play with her feelings and say something like "you're such a great friend" "can you give me some advice with a girl I'm dating, I need a female friends opinion" "where's the best place to meet cute girls?" use words like bro, sister, friend, say how you think she's one of the guys. When I was seeing this one girl, another girl had a crush on me (she didn't know I was dating another girl at the time) and she came clean about it, I obviously couldn't do it subtly because it was already out there so I had to put her down the hardway and I heard from one of her friends that it was pretty hard for her because it even required a lot of courage for her to do it in the first place, this was before my experience as a PUA so I had no idea she was giving me IOI's and that I was sending her mixed signals so I felt really bad about hurting her and now I'm trying to never be in that situation again.. so yeah, definetely let her know your intent but do it subtly, don't flake or wait for her to become even more attracted

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    RenaissanceManinNJ is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Date with an "ugly" girl (I'm not interested): What to do??

    How ugly is ugly girl? Hideous?

    If she's not hideous, then I suggest bringing a paper bag along.

    That was a joke.

    One thing you might try is asking her about her love life - if she's had any luck dating. Commiserate with her about how it sucks when you get friend zoned. Be aloof when you do this. Vent, and let her vent. Then after the date is over, tell her "Thanks, I really needed a friend and you were there for me. (optional - I won't forget that.)"

    Essentially, by talking to her as if you're one of her "girlfriends", you're making it clear that you see her only as a friend, while allowing her an out. Depending on your date, also suggest dressing down. You don't want to be in full PUA fashion mode if you're conveying that you see her as just a female friend.


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