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    Default Need quick Advice with Situation

    Hey All!

    So heres the story
    I knew this girl for like a year and i was an AFC in the day and i had a huge crush on this girl
    after the year she compliments me and everything, gaming her through text
    out of nowhere a girl who had a crush on me shows up and tells her how i use to tell her "How perfect she is, how i wanted to marry her" ETC.

    She confronted me about it and had a conversation.
    "You like me"
    "woah slow down, im not that easy"
    "Pft play hard to get aalll you want"

    Eventually she ended with "you are over me and thats it"
    I guess she seemed a bit upset? i dont know

    Obviously i have interest in her but im not Overlly attached to the girl. Game plan kind of ruined by that girl (4)

    I dont know how to get out of this mess...
    I really Dont know what i CAN talk about after this
    I need advice, What are the do's and don'ts here?

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    Alergy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default Re: Need quick Advice with Situation

    what I would do is.. admit to her that I did have a crush on with something like this (when you guys meet again) after she asks you about it again:
    (HER)-so you're still going to deny the fact that you like me?
    (YOU)-I USED to like you, like a year ago
    (HER)-so you're telling me you don't like me anymore? I don't believe you
    (YOU)-believe what you want, I'm nor going to tell you I still do nor tell you I don't anymore, maybe it would be easier for me to answer if you told me what's so special about you apart from the pretty little face?

    and then she tells you some random stuff or her best qualities or tries to sh*t test you, at least that's what happened to me a few months ago with this girl I liked (who had friendzoned me like a year ago), and we started hanging out again (after I started learning PU), she wasn't getting mad about but was rather pointing out my IOI's and what not. Anyways, this was the technique I used to make her wondering without actually even telling her (I didn't, I just wanted her to keep guessing for a few weeks for putting me on the spot and confronting me about it), I was definitely a whole other person back then (when I got blown out), a very shy and timid guy who had to get a lot of courage before asking the girl out and later on getting blown out(haha, sh*t happens btw), and when I started learning PU and broke out of my shell, got a shitload of confidence and happened to achieve my current mindset -cocky/funny, the reason I'm telling you this is because I don't know if it works with something other than cocky/funny, if this is your mindset (and judging from your post it is) I can't promise you anything, but it worked for me to make her wonder and without getting pissed off about it

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    Default Re: Need quick Advice with Situation

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    what I would do is.. admit to her that I did have a crush on with something like this (when you guys meet again) after she asks you about it again:
    (HER)-so you're still going to deny the fact that you like me?
    (YOU)-I USED to like you, like a year ago
    (HER)-so you're telling me you don't like me anymore? I don't believe you
    (YOU)-believe what you want, I'm nor going to tell you I still do nor tell you I don't anymore, maybe it would be easier for me to answer if you told me what's so special about you apart from the pretty little face?

    and then she tells you some random stuff or her best qualities or tries to sh*t test you, at least that's what happened to me a few months ago with this girl I liked (who had friendzoned me like a year ago), and we started hanging out again (after I started learning PU), she wasn't getting mad about but was rather pointing out my IOI's and what not. Anyways, this was the technique I used to make her wondering without actually even telling her (I didn't, I just wanted her to keep guessing for a few weeks for putting me on the spot and confronting me about it), I was definitely a whole other person back then (when I got blown out), a very shy and timid guy who had to get a lot of courage before asking the girl out and later on getting blown out(haha, sh*t happens btw), and when I started learning PU and broke out of my shell, got a shitload of confidence and happened to achieve my current mindset -cocky/funny, the reason I'm telling you this is because I don't know if it works with something other than cocky/funny, if this is your mindset (and judging from your post it is) I can't promise you anything, but it worked for me to make her wonder and without getting pissed off about it
    Thank you for the post (: i think i know what my reply would be
    either way i rather have it confirmed before i use it
    "So you liked me?"
    "well yeah obviously, a year ago"
    "But you still like me right?"

    so i want to answer it this way, I want To tell her im Interested, But none needy, also the fact that im way too good for her and she needs to TRY and chase me. without coming off rude.

    "Even if i did like you, I probably woudn't tell you, Give me at least 3 reasons why i should STILL Be chasing you."

    After she says her reasons i can say "Maybe you're worth it afterall." Or something?

    or.

    "of course i like you, I am interested But...Whats in it for me?"

    Im not sure how to answer honestly. Ive NEVER been in this kind of situation before.
    Cold Approach? Sure. Day Game? Sure. Group Of People? Sure.
    A girl i use to know? I have no clue.


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