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    Default What to do if she knows you like her?

    Hey guys

    What do you do if the girl knows you like her? / Are interested in her

    She probably heard from your Friend Or in some other matter

    How do you approach this situation?

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    If you know for a fact she knows then I would feel her out. And be confident, make eye contact and comfortable around her to see if the feeling is mutual. I wouldn't rush things it makes you look eager. Being to anxious can make it look like your needy wich is usually a turn off. And a big thing is I would keep my mouth shut to your friends. You don't want people relaying your messages for you. Think about what your going to say to her and prepare different responses for her possible answers. If your convo is up to par and she is attracted to you that's all it should take.

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustMe View Post
    If you know for a fact she knows then I would feel her out. And be confident, make eye contact and comfortable around her to see if the feeling is mutual. I wouldn't rush things it makes you look eager. Being to anxious can make it look like your needy wich is usually a turn off. And a big thing is I would keep my mouth shut to your friends. You don't want people relaying your messages for you. Think about what your going to say to her and prepare different responses for her possible answers. If your convo is up to par and she is attracted to you that's all it should take.
    So it would be okay if i said

    "Yeah, I am Interested in you, its not like im putting you on a thrown and worshiping you like other guys. If you Send the mutual feeling back, Great, If not, Ill be okay."
    and so on?

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    really depends on your personality, if you're the type of guy who likes to act like he's hard to get then this is my advice for you - "don't take it the wrong way, I like you, but don't feel so special. It takes a lot more than a pretty little face to keep me intrigued, what's so special about you?"

    I'm not a big fan of pick-up lines but "what's so special about you?" is an exception for me.

    and like I said, it really depends on your personality, after starting my journey of becoming a PUA, I try to never be "sold" or "solved" doesn't matter how you put it to words, it all has the same meaning - letting her know that you like her, before knowing if she likes you back, and I stick to this every step of the way, from my body language to our actual conversations, I might let the girl know I'm a bit intrigued but never again.. solved..

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    Noooooo, I definitely wouldn't say that. Actions speak louder than words. Even if your happy as shit she gave you some play you don't show it. Everybody has their own way of talking I have my own verbal game depending on the type of female I'm talking to age,race,occupation etc. . So, in your situation if I seen her I would softly grab her hand to stop her and glide your fingers from her palm to her fingertips and let go (2-3 seconds) this will show her your interested. MAKE EYE CONTACT.Tell her hey this is going to sound completely random but I'm attracted to you and wanna kick it with you sometime. *Take your time while talking don't rush. After you get her With your actions you do what you said push and pull you don't say it. It's like football, the Seahawks go on the field and run a play without telling the other team the play. If they did they would obviously know what was coming and football wouldn't be so fun to watch if you eliminated the element of surprise. It's like your favorite tv show why do you keep watching? Because, your interested you don't know what's coming next , it has you guessing with every twist and turn. You want to become her favorite tv show. Put thought into every move and she will put thought into you. Stand out from every other person trying to talk to her. Always do the talking for yourself. You want to show you have confidence plus you want what you want to be said how you want to be said then you have to do the talking.
    Hope this helps
    Let me know how you make out or if you need more help*

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustMe View Post
    Noooooo, I definitely wouldn't say that. Actions speak louder than words. Even if your happy as shit she gave you some play you don't show it. Everybody has their own way of talking I have my own verbal game depending on the type of female I'm talking to age,race,occupation etc. . So, in your situation if I seen her I would softly grab her hand to stop her and glide your fingers from her palm to her fingertips and let go (2-3 seconds) this will show her your interested. MAKE EYE CONTACT.Tell her hey this is going to sound completely random but I'm attracted to you and wanna kick it with you sometime. *Take your time while talking don't rush. After you get her With your actions you do what you said push and pull you don't say it. It's like football, the Seahawks go on the field and run a play without telling the other team the play. If they did they would obviously know what was coming and football wouldn't be so fun to watch if you eliminated the element of surprise. It's like your favorite tv show why do you keep watching? Because, your interested you don't know what's coming next , it has you guessing with every twist and turn. You want to become her favorite tv show. Put thought into every move and she will put thought into you. Stand out from every other person trying to talk to her. Always do the talking for yourself. You want to show you have confidence plus you want what you want to be said how you want to be said then you have to do the talking.
    Hope this helps
    Let me know how you make out or if you need more help*
    Yes I agree with that, But its Very Weird Since In the past I was an AFC Putting her on a padestal.
    recently she told me how i deserve true love and how different i am turned into someone mature.
    I can see IOI's but Her finding out I LIKED her Before alot And Asking me and assuming i still like her CONFUSES me.
    I can easily say "Yeah sure, I like you, But im not easy come." Or something like that.
    I dont want to be a guy she Can Get whenever she wants. I want to seem like a guy WORTH getting and WORTH chasing. Im not the kind of guy who would put her on a throne and worship her.
    So how should i respond if she asks me If I like her? I dont want to seem needy, i want to seem confident in my words and NONE Needy at all.

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    Hey brotha,
    If she's asking if you like her it sounds like you already have this in the bag. Put your hands on her waist and bring her waist to yours and ask her is there something wrong with that. Make eye contact even if there's a thousand people around look only in her eyes. Possibly kiss her if the situation presents itself. You got this man make the move don't ask permission just do. She' ll stop you if she doesn't want you to. But, if she doesn't .....? Catch my drift? You will show the ultimate confidence by doing something like that. You can add your own twist but that's what I would do if I was in your shoes. All or nothing. If she plays games then step. Don't let her see if it bothers you just stay cool and keep it moving.

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustMe View Post
    Hey brotha,
    If she's asking if you like her it sounds like you already have this in the bag. Put your hands on her waist and bring her waist to yours and ask her is there something wrong with that. Make eye contact even if there's a thousand people around look only in her eyes. Possibly kiss her if the situation presents itself. You got this man make the move don't ask permission just do. She' ll stop you if she doesn't want you to. But, if she doesn't .....? Catch my drift? You will show the ultimate confidence by doing something like that. You can add your own twist but that's what I would do if I was in your shoes. All or nothing. If she plays games then step. Don't let her see if it bothers you just stay cool and keep it moving.
    Fair Enough (: Thank you for the information

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    Default Re: What to do if she knows you like her?

    No reply for 2 days...hm...
    I was Pinging Her as you should Via Text, i didnt mantion anything regarding the previous convo.
    Just random things ive been up to, ill ping her 2 more days if no reply ill skip a day (: If not ill wait a week..
    If im correct! id love your suggestions


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