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Thread: Are getting the girl and keeping her two seperate things ?

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    Default Are getting the girl and keeping her two seperate things ?

    I have been wondering. I can get a girl. Keeping her though...that is where the real work begins. Should I treat it all as one big game. I think I seem to lack relationship game.

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    Default Re: Are getting the girl and keeping her two seperate things ?

    maybe your current game is more as a show, you put everything on the table - all your techniques, all your lines to build rapport and attraction yet you seem to lack genuine inner-game, maybe you seem too much of a PUA and that scares the girl because she is frightened to connect with you, maybe you just got too much walls and your energy really shows that, you could be too needy, having an overt lack of neediness.

    You provide very little information, can only guess at the moment until you explain how you interact with girls on a daily basis who you just game yet see no future with, and how you act around girls who you're trying to get into a LTR with

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    Default Re: Are getting the girl and keeping her two seperate things ?

    Totally different. I used to be exceptional on picking up a girl and sleepingwith her as fast as possible (sometimes within 20 minutes of meeting her I'd be sleeping with her). I also struggled mightily with keeping the women I wanted to keep. This has changed for me the last 2-3 years and now I'm very good at keeping the women I want.

    I stopped treating it as one big game. No "games" are necessary and when you forget about games you are much more congruent, genuine, and trustworthy in her eyes. The keys to keeping a girl are not caring if you lose her, but also showing her that you appreciate her. She needs to feel special and that you can get other women, but you pick her over other women because she is better in some way. Women LOVE feeling more attractive then other women.

    I've recently written some posts about KEEPING a girl. The first thread seems like it's a big game but really you just don't tell her everything. You can read that here https://www.puaforums.com/online-tex...re-dating.html

    The other one is how to be charming. The little tips in here is one BIG reason allot of guys don't get the girl. https://www.puaforums.com/help-getti...-charming.html


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