Hey everyone just looking for some general ideas here.
Last week I decided to go to a cultural event. I went with family, and did not really have much gaming in mind just basic social dynamics practice. So I went well dressed and tried to just enjoy myself.
There was a little concert going on and fair enough most of the event was around the concert and so I happened to get seated with a 2 set, mother and daughter. Daughter I would honestly say is a 6 but maybe even a 7 (she had almost no make up.)
She was giving me many iois and 45 minutes in however she starts shit testing me. It's a bit of a rock concert and everyones going a bit wild jumping and dancing to the song like it should be, now however I myself wasn't and so when she sat down she asked whats wrong? are you ok, you're just sitting? bored ? etc...
LOL so thrown into this situation I was not prepared, and tried to play it off like a I was too cool for it. Twice she busted me for trying and then finally I called her a "groupie" WITHOUT KNOWING what it meant LOL. (I thought it just meant you're a hardcore fan of the band... OOPS) So based off her reaction I realized she was offended and said "just joking" and said something positive.
So as the night continued she still kept giving me iois and kept asking if I was bored etc. I felt like I screwed up and the conversations died + I started in comfort not attraction so I'm sure I'm leaning closer to the friendzone anyways. So now her mom leaves to talk to some people while the concert is in full effect, while she stayed, which I took as a passive ioi. Second once she finally left after about 20 minutes to talk to her mom she she had left her bag and umbrella beside me. She came back after 10 minutes and called me to get them for her (This is an ioi I read somewhere) She was at the very edge of the seats and I was in the middle, I felt it was way to much hassle for me to squeeze through everyone and I did not bother with it leaving her to struggle herself to get them. Once the concert ended she said "I won't forget that."
Funny thing is about 5 minutes later I still keep seeing her walking around saying bye to people, and she comes to me and number closes me lol? I sent her this text that I made up that has ALWAYS gotten a positive reaction and reply but she did not reply.
So aside all jokes about me aside;
What would me calling her a "groupie" do to her?
What would me rejecting her bag request do to her?
She never replied to that text, she expects me to call, but I haven't yet. I will sooner rather than later.