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Thread: Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

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    Default Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

    I am not sure if this girl is a realist or idealist. But, I am confident that she is an investor and justifier.
    -She is in a PHD program, about to start working as a school psychologist (or similar job). Before that, she had some kind of administrative/ leadership in Jewish (youth?) organization
    -both of her parents are doctors.
    -she says she is very close with her brother who has the spectrum disorder (although he graduated law school and is now in some PhD program, but she seems to think he will/ did have issues in the work world)
    -I think she tried to catch me when I fell ice skating (but I ended up knocking her over)
    -she doesn't wear makeup
    -I don't think she was dressed very well on second date but was outdoors, little messy
    -she was asking me a lot of economic questions early on (Who is this business partner that I speak of? Do I have my MBA? Do I rent or own?)
    -her parents bought her a house but she is going to pay the mortgage when she starts working in few weeks
    -I googled her name and it says she won some kind of community/ neighborhood award.
    -I heard that she was dating a guy/ guys who were unemployed (although I'd kind of guess highly educated unemployed)
    She does seem like the modern woman more than cinderella.

    What I am thinking is that her parents may put a lot of pressure on her with the education. So she might not really be a realist.

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    Default Re: Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

    I think she is a realist. Because she ask questions like (Who is this business partner that you speak of? Do you have your MBA? Do you rent or own?). And she is trying to step on her own feet. Also I think she can be a denier too. Because she have very religous back ground and doesn't wear make up.I notice with some deniers that they can talk about sex but they see other girls who have sex as sluts. And thats the important thing.They can talk about it but the important part is how she feels about it.
    I don't know about inverster though.I can't say anything looking at what you have wrote.Lets say that is true.Than you have NDR(Connoiesseur) I think. Hope that helps.

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    Default Re: Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

    Ok, yes, this is helpful. Thank you.

    I was leaving out some details pertaining to the other "categories."

    The reason that I think she is a justifier is because she sent me a photo of her knee that was bruised from when we were ice skating. And said "sexy, eh?" That may have been an invitation to escalate with something like. "No, that's not sexy try again."

    She has 3 medium to large sized tattoos & wants to get a 4th. Decarlo says that tattoos are a very strong indicator of justifier. But, I don't understand how some small detail like that can be a huge indicator.

    She is really not religious. She was brought up for first several years with no religion. Now she is kind of into it, but doesn't seem to go to synagogue weekly or anything.

    I think she was down for kissing after we went out the first time but it was in the middle of a residential block in the daytime. I thought that would point to justifier, too.

    Any more insight or suggestions would be helpful.

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    Default Re: Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

    I totally agree with the the JR part, not so sure about the N/T.. Vin clearly stated that some girls like to pretend to be Investers when they are Testers, I once thought that 1 girl I liked was an NDI, tried to treat her like one, blew all of my chances with her and afterwards I found out that she's a Private Dancer (TDR).. Just don't make my mistake, don't rush to conclusions and try getting more information about the girls/guys in her life, her previous bf and if it was an LTR or not.

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    Default Re: Trying to figure out Pandora's box type

    Alergy, very interesting.
    I really thought that I had the N/T part of it nailed. But now that you mention this, I see your point.
    At our second date, it seemed like she may have had a legitimate reason to flake but she just instead moved the date a little earlier. And it didn't seem like she was going to flake even if I didn't change the time with her.
    Another reason that I thought she was an investor is 1 months before I met her, someone was trying to set us up but she said that she was involved with someone. But then a month or month and a half later she is available & we got introduced. So I thought her saying that she is involved could mean investor but I see what you are saying- tester because she has short term relationships (maybe they don't have to be simultaneous).

    Right now, things are about dead with her. I am going to start a new thread with some details on that-- I think it could lead to some interesting discussion.


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