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    Hinterguard is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What would you guys do??

    Hi guys,

    I need a bit of advice on how to respond/react to the following situation that presented itself and hope you guys can help. A little background info;

    I was in a pub with a group of friends and while we were outside having a smoke, an old acquaintance (girl 1) made a bee-line for me and said that herself and another acquaintance of mine (which there have always been chemistry but things have always got in the way. Girl 2) were talking the other night and were saying we should all get together and hangout and that girl 2 really missed me etc. Reading this as a 'can you give me your number so I can give it to girl 2' situation, I said that it sounded like a good idea, and suggested girl 1 and myself exchange numbers and we'll arrange something.
    I texted girl 1 the following day, which she responded quickly to and finished the text by saying 'girl 2 is very excited about it'. Although I don't have girl 2's number, she is on my FB, would it be advisable to cut out the middleman so to speak and if girl 2 is interested she might respond on FBmessenger, although this feel s a little bit creepy and possibly DLV.

    So my question is this, how do I escalate this as I don't have girl 2's number and may come across strange if I ask girl 1 for it and how do I progress it in such a way where I don't come across pushy and DLV?

    Thanks in advance.




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    Default Re: What would you guys do??

    Okay Hinterguard,

    What are your trying to do?
    What is your ideal scenario and objective?

    I get that you want to escalate this to the next level but to what next level?
    Threesome?
    Girlfriend with girl #2?
    Playing one girl off of the other for amusement?

    I am assuming you are trying to take this to the level of dating this girl #2 so you can experience the played out sitcom scenario where the sexual tension is finally built up to the point of eruption and the timing is finally right for the two stars to be together?

    If so, a word of caution, most of these situations where the timings never right, end up right back there after you two finally scratch that itch. If it's to just get laid, it's great sex and really intimate but afterwards the chemistry sinks to a sort of "in limbo association" between the two of you and suddently youre neither friends nor lovers and you're left in a timewarp of longing for equalibrium

    Not always, but often
    Id go for the three way personally

    Levi Gene

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    meteora is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: What would you guys do??

    I was in a pub with a group of friends and while we were outside having a smoke, an old acquaintance (girl 1) made a bee-line for me and said that herself and another acquaintance of mine (which there have always been chemistry but things have always got in the way. Girl 2) were talking the other night and were saying we should all get together and hangout and that girl 2 really missed me etc. Reading this as a 'can you give me your number so I can give it to girl 2' situation, I said that it sounded like a good idea, and suggested girl 1 and myself exchange numbers and we'll arrange something.
    it looks to me like girl 1 wants the D lol it appears like she is either trying to hook you up with her girl so she can vicariously live that fantasy through her friends experience with you, or she is expressing her friends interest as a way to show her own interest. it would not surprise me if you invited the two of them out and only girl 1 shows up. now the third option is that she is being completely honest with you and they both want you.

    there's only one way to find out. hit up girl 1 and ask her to bring girl 2 with her to hang out with you. once you're face to face with them/her, reading their/her intentions will be much easier.


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