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Thread: Starting Collage. Need advice

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    Default Starting Collage. Need advice

    Hello Everyone

    So in a bout 2 - 3 weeks im starting collage.
    its a little far from where i live but anyway
    I felt nervous when going on Campus.
    and i want to be able to feel confident around people there, i want to make friends and attract girls.
    I want to have a strong mindset!
    What would you advice me to do?

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    Default Re: Starting Collage. Need advice

    Hey derpaderp,

    I found that when I was in college I was most comfortable in joining groups or activities that I had a lot of interest and passion in first, then I started being more adventerous and branching out from there. Do stuff that you already have some skills in (e.g. soccer, basketball), or you're very passionate in but don't have a lot of skills in yet (e.g. theatre, public-speaking). What this will do is it will give you tonnes of material to work from (because you are either already skilled in it, or passionate about it) so you will always have conversation starters/conversation continuers. This will then allow you to build a strong social circle and start making friends, building rapport with fellow college students, train your social skills. After that, the sky's the limit. Once you start building a close social group, this is your "nest", "base", that you can keep going back to once you branch out.

    Study, have fun and start building your social skills. Good luck and update us on your endeavours.

    WS

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    Default Re: Starting Collage. Need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by wolf_spirit View Post
    Hey derpaderp,

    I found that when I was in college I was most comfortable in joining groups or activities that I had a lot of interest and passion in first, then I started being more adventerous and branching out from there. Do stuff that you already have some skills in (e.g. soccer, basketball), or you're very passionate in but don't have a lot of skills in yet (e.g. theatre, public-speaking). What this will do is it will give you tonnes of material to work from (because you are either already skilled in it, or passionate about it) so you will always have conversation starters/conversation continuers. This will then allow you to build a strong social circle and start making friends, building rapport with fellow college students, train your social skills. After that, the sky's the limit. Once you start building a close social group, this is your "nest", "base", that you can keep going back to once you branch out.

    Study, have fun and start building your social skills. Good luck and update us on your endeavours.

    WS
    THanks man c: will do! Appriciate the advice

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    Default Re: Starting Collage. Need advice

    Hello Everyone

    So in a bout 2 - 3 weeks im starting collage.
    its a little far from where i live but anyway
    I felt nervous when going on Campus.
    and i want to be able to feel confident around people there, i want to make friends and attract girls.
    I want to have a strong mindset!
    What would you advice me to do?
    getting girls in college is all about networking. start with befriending people in your classes and daily activities. you'll start recognizing more and more people you know and you can meet their friends. the more social proof you have the easier meeting girls will be. college is a time to be yourself and have fun. don't always be so focused on getting laid. having good times with good friends is far more rewarding.


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