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Thread: Looking for help

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    Default Looking for help

    My post is kinda lengthy. Gotten almost 80 views at this point w/o one response. I was wondering if it should be moved or not. Basically a shortened (but lengthy) version of my experiences with one woman and me wondering what I should do next.

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    Default Re: Looking for help

    in the future - please write your posts shorter, when I was halfway through actually thought about stopping reading yet I didn't, so here's my advice for you - kino escalate, kino escalate and kino escalate. In your story there all sorts of conversations with them, yet you say nothing about even shaking her hand nor giving her a hug, kiss. You rely on text game too much, and I know it works great for some people - but I'm a terrible text'er, I just hate it, I use it only to set up meetings or to say hi to people I knew a long time ago, I hate it because I have better things to do and I'm not going to drop everything I'm doing just to chit-chat, of course I could text back 4hours later when I'm free and be gone again but that usually gets them furious at me for not replying for a long time. The reason I'm telling this is because I don't do text game a lot, I prefer interacting in person, when you meet-up with a girl and have an awesome time, she has those same good emotions and think your next interaction will be just as good if not better, but with texting you can ruin it all by saying something playful, she misunderstands you - gets offended because she can't hear your playful tone, you can get too clingy and she'll think you're a stalker.

    definitely start kino escalating, don't play it too safe, don't rely so much on text game, but if that's your style - be careful and not make it ruin your game.

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    Default Re: Looking for help

    He is texting because she is in South Dakota and he is in Wyoming so its all ge has right niw but that's OK, it can work but you have to sexually escalate so she can't wait to see you again


    Here is a simple guideline about how to escalate gradually


    STEP 1

    Ask about her dating history/how she finds the bar scene/ how she is finding being single.

    These are very basic stuff to get the ball rolling.


    If she finds these are "personal" information or any crap like that,
    she is shy/frigid/doesn't like you enough or has issues - so you can decide weather to bail early or persist.


    STEP 2


    See how comfortable she is with Simple sexual scenarios like some imaginery story about how
    you heard your neighbours fucking last night, or how you saw a couple having sex on a train..etc
    A story that doesn't involve you or her basically.
    You will be amazed how many girls will jump at the chance and reply with "oh,i wish that was me"
    or "at least she is getting more action than i am getting"!

    Again, if she reacts with genuine and violent disgust then alarm bells should be ringing for YOU




    STEP 3

    Find out when was her last kiss and/or hot date, start some gentle innuendos.
    It's getting a bit more saucy now! but still not x-rated by any means.
    Some may give you a coy and playfull telling-off along the lines of "stop being cheeky" or "stop teasing me";
    which is completely fine.


    As long as she doesn't freak out, just carry on.


    STEP 4

    Ask when she last had some action/been intimate!
    And if answers then that's a green light to IMMEDIATELY ask about her favorite and least favorite positions;
    how experienced she is in bed, what's the craziest thing she tried in the bedroom and her fantasies.
    Really explore her sexual side, find out what she likes and dislikes.
    But don't do it in a silly giggly way, do it in a "we're both adults and we can talk about this" way.


    STEP 5

    All out sex talk"if i was in your room now, what's the FIRST thing you would do to me?".



    So that's a simple breakdown of how far you can test the waters
    In my experience, if you can get to step four intensity in your texts, it's very likely she'll sleep with you

    Sometimes you won't even need to get that far, she will show her true colors in step 2 and race ahead of you!
    And most importantly, if she is offended EVERYTIME you attempt this, realize that if you can't even flirt sexually.
    she is useless to you.

    Notice, how all this escalation/flirting stuff is what guys try and clumsily do on the date itself.
    But why wait? when you can do it before and have a good idea what you're dealing with.
    And most girls really get a buzz out of your boldness, they're sick of nicey-nicey conversations.


    GL
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Looking for help

    Thank you both. Much appreciated. Not quite sure what I'll do at this point to break the ice. (My boss just sent me a ninja video I thought was hilarious.... Funny Videos by PreciousMonster .. 0 might be O IDK. I'm not a big texter so might be a more buddy thing ... IDK.) Think I need something to do so since it's been too long... IMHO. I'm not big into "hi. how u doing?" ... two... three weeks down the road. Not sure where I am.

    Kino escalation... definitely where I failed. Thanks for the advice.


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