Re: Looking for help
He is texting because she is in South Dakota and he is in Wyoming so its all ge has right niw but that's OK, it can work but you have to sexually escalate so she can't wait to see you again
Here is a simple guideline about how to escalate gradually
Ask about her dating history/how she finds the bar scene/ how she is finding being single.
These are very basic stuff to get the ball rolling.
If she finds these are "personal" information or any crap like that,
she is shy/frigid/doesn't like you enough or has issues - so you can decide weather to bail early or persist.
See how comfortable she is with Simple sexual scenarios like some imaginery story about how
you heard your neighbours fucking last night, or how you saw a couple having sex on a train..etc
A story that doesn't involve you or her basically.
You will be amazed how many girls will jump at the chance and reply with "oh,i wish that was me"
or "at least she is getting more action than i am getting"!
Again, if she reacts with genuine and violent disgust then alarm bells should be ringing for YOU
Find out when was her last kiss and/or hot date, start some gentle innuendos.
It's getting a bit more saucy now! but still not x-rated by any means.
Some may give you a coy and playfull telling-off along the lines of "stop being cheeky" or "stop teasing me";
which is completely fine.
As long as she doesn't freak out, just carry on.
Ask when she last had some action/been intimate!
And if answers then that's a green light to IMMEDIATELY ask about her favorite and least favorite positions;
how experienced she is in bed, what's the craziest thing she tried in the bedroom and her fantasies.
Really explore her sexual side, find out what she likes and dislikes.
But don't do it in a silly giggly way, do it in a "we're both adults and we can talk about this" way.
All out sex talk"if i was in your room now, what's the FIRST thing you would do to me?".
So that's a simple breakdown of how far you can test the waters
In my experience, if you can get to step four intensity in your texts, it's very likely she'll sleep with you
Sometimes you won't even need to get that far, she will show her true colors in step 2 and race ahead of you!
And most importantly, if she is offended EVERYTIME you attempt this, realize that if you can't even flirt sexually.
she is useless to you.
Notice, how all this escalation/flirting stuff is what guys try and clumsily do on the date itself.
But why wait? when you can do it before and have a good idea what you're dealing with.
And most girls really get a buzz out of your boldness, they're sick of nicey-nicey conversations.
"The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet