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    Default Dating is easy

    Dating is easy – be nice to people and stay in your league.


    But... Girls don't like nice guys, they go for jerks, you say. Girls love nice guys. The problem is that every time you hear a guy say “girls don't like nice guys” she is a seven and he is a three at best.


    But... having game will help you get girls that are out of your league, right? Well, no, it won't, because women don't really care about your game.


    Let's look at it biologically for a bit – a man, in theory, can have an unlimited number of children, each time you have sex, is, theoretically, a chance to reproduce, so men are not too picky about who they have sex with. Women, on the other hand, have a very limited number of opportunities to reproduce – she's gotta carry the kid for nine months, and after wards, women are the primary caregivers for children, and it's not practical to have too many of them. So because of this, women are not looking for a large number of different sex partners, but for the best possible sex partner, the guy who is as close to the total package as she is likely to get.


    This is why women don't care about your game, they care about the total package you are presenting them. My advice to all you pick up wannabes – put down the pick up books and focus on actually getting your life together so you have a decent package to present. Get your own place. Get a respectable, non embarrassing car. Learn to dress like a grown man, it's called business casual. Learn to talk to women respectfully and have a real conversation about common interests instead of just trying to get in her pants. Get trained for a career that could possibly support a family one day. These are the things women look for, not your “game” The only thing in your package if you are a pick up artist is the desire to sleep with other women, and nobody will go for that.

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    Bill white- I couldn't of said it any better. Great job brotha

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    Bill White - what a complete load of crap ....... you don't know the first thing about pick up, it's only about getting into her pants for the really young kids and the misinformed , for the rest of us it's about becoming the best men we can be ..... and FYI, there is absolutely no girl that is out of my league
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Let's talk about this biologically Bill. Women look for a guy that gives them and their offspring the best chance for survival. There were no "business casual" and "cars" when we were cavemen. Humans have been around for 200,000 years. Anything modern doesn't matter because we cant evolve that fast. Throw out money, cars, clothes and a fancy house. None of these things existed in the past.

    Women do look for the "package", but none of the things you listed are part of the package. They look for a man that will stay with them through childbirth (which until very recently is a very dangerous thing for a woman) and provide for her and her children. This all comes down to behavior, not physical traits or possessions. It all boils down to a mans behavior. You can be broke, living with your parents, not very attractive, and still land plenty of amazing women if you have the right behavior.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Let's talk about this biologically Bill. Women look for a guy that gives them and their offspring the best chance for survival. There were no "business casual" and "cars" when we were cavemen. Humans have been around for 200,000 years. Anything modern doesn't matter because we cant evolve that fast. Throw out money, cars, clothes and a fancy house. None of these things existed in the past.

    Women do look for the "package", but none of the things you listed are part of the package. They look for a man that will stay with them through childbirth (which until very recently is a very dangerous thing for a woman) and provide for her and her children. This all comes down to behavior, not physical traits or possessions. It all boils down to a mans behavior. You can be broke, living with your parents, not very attractive, and still land plenty of amazing women if you have the right behavior.
    Yes, let's talk about this biologically shall we? I agree with Bill in some respects however, since I AM a woman, maybe what I have to say will shed some light on things. Both scientifically and logically. Because it's the truth.

    The chemical released by a woman after sex is called oxytocin...

    It is a bonding agent. The start of a long process in and through a women's brain and body. The associated behaviours thereafter (I'm sure you all have seen them) come quickly, the affection, cuddling, frequent contact, stating how wonderful you are, doe eyes, "I miss you's" ra de ra... you know exactly what I'm talking about here because, in a nutshell, it's exactly what you guys do to score, except women do it biologically. We do it naturally.

    As a single woman, to me it's actually about character. Not money, not looks, not intelligence, not behaviour. Character. Character comes with time and the evidence is the whole package

    Work on your character.
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Yes, let's talk about this biologically shall we? I agree with Bill in some respects however, since I AM a woman, maybe what I have to say will shed some light on things. Both scientifically and logically. Because it's the truth.

    The chemical released by a woman after sex is called oxytocin...

    It is a bonding agent. The start of a long process in and through a women's brain and body. The associated behaviours thereafter (I'm sure you all have seen them) come quickly, the affection, cuddling, frequent contact, stating how wonderful you are, doe eyes, "I miss you's" ra de ra... you know exactly what I'm talking about here because, in a nutshell, it's exactly what you guys do to score, except women do it biologically. We do it naturally.

    As a single woman, to me it's actually about character. Not money, not looks, not intelligence, not behaviour. Character. Character comes with time and the evidence is the whole package

    Work on your character.

    Your reply basically backed up my claim. Character is synonymous with behavior. How someone behaves in situations is directly linked to their character.

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    Not exactly. Behavior can be an act. This very forum is testament to false/modified behavior.

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    It can be an act, but if it is, people see through it very quickly. That's why allot of "PUA's" can get laid, but struggle to have a relationship. This happens because their "true" behavior (true character) shines through.

    Personally, I think allot of PUA tactics that allot of guys use are sh!t. The main reason being they are an act. It's not genuine. So back to my argument, behavior is key and linked directly to your character. False behavior is possible but fleeting.

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    You can't behave out of your character for very long ........ your true character will always come through
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Dating is easy

    Yes, time + behaviour = character. I also find PUA irrelevant and liken it to a quick and nasty trip to an inflated ego, a rather underdeveloped character and a very dangerous and shrunken set of... morals


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