I am 21 years old and live in Sweden, so you will have to live with my english
I met a girl at a nightclub for like one year ago, we kissed alot that evening but didnt really talk to eachother afterwards, though we got eachothers numbers and facebook.
So I made contact with her again like 2 weeks ago and asked her if she wanted to meet up. She said she really wanted to do it but she couldnt. Through this year that has passed, I think Ive talked to her like 3-4 times and each time she said she wanted to meet up but didnt have time, was sick or something like that.
So here's the thing. This upcoming friday me and my friends are gonna have a party. I invited her and she said that she would try to talk her friends into it. We talked about this earlier this week on wednesday.
My question is, should I text her in the upcoming days and say something like "it will be fun seeeing you on friday", or should I just let it go and go to the party, and then hope for that she will come? Notice that this girl and her friends dont know me and my friends, so I am somehow the connection point in this situation. If she dont text me before the party, she wont come.