Hi, I've been reading the forums long time ago, never actually posted. I need your help. What would you do ?
To keep things short, I started talking to this girl on facebook(very solid 9-10) wich his the Ex of one of my friends (they dated 1 1/2 years ago). We saw eachother one time and talked 5min at a party 3 years ago.
Here's the conversation (was in french but I translated).
I knew I saw this little face somewhere !
Me Aren't you proud ?
Girl Of course I am !
Me You should totally put this black lip stick on more often. I think it's a winner
I think I'll pass :P
You saw the shows on tv ?
Me Yup, saw that by pure coincidence at some friend's house. Girls were listening to it and I recognized you.
You liked it ?
Me Ya it was really nice ! But it could have been bad and I would've still liked it since I got the dancing skillz of a marionette made by a 3 year old. "(that joke sounded better in french)"
Me I seriously didn't believe it was you on tv.
Girl Ahah I'm horrible on this tv shot.
Me You should really think about wearing that black lipstick more often.
so the guy leaves before I say hello to him :P
Girl Tell me you don't find it cute for real
When we'll go on a date someday I'll make sure you wear that
People are going to recognize me, we'll be surrounded by fans :P lol not
Me loll. Don't forget the cap. I won't recognize you if you do.
If I wear the cap also, people are really going to ask autographs. I prefer to stay incognito... ahah
Me Yeah but we'll get the best seat in the bar with free drinks. This is a no brainer.
Girl Lol yea yea
Me I have an idea.
Me Forget it. It's a bad idea.
So how much time do you practice dance per week ?
Girl Depending on contracts and shows but I'd say 10 hours per week min.
Tell me what was your idea ?
Me I told you it was not a good one
Girl Yea but I'm kind of a curious girl. So tell me
Me You never give up do you
Me I think it would be nice for us to go take a drink next week and get the vip table since you're famous.
Girl ahahahah we won't get free drinks. I'll wear a hoodie.
Me this week I'm very busy but next week would be a possibility.
Girl If you don't have any thoughts in your mind this yes. I think it'd be weird since I dated Yoan.
Me I know one thing. Past is past for a reason. I hang out w/ ppl to have fun and if you won't because of your history, then it's best if we don't go.
Girl lol if it's just for fun yeah I'm down like I said.
Me I'm in town next tuesday but I'm busy. So wednesday or thursday ?
So we booked a date. Two days later (2 days before date) she comes down with this :
Sincerely I don't think it's a good idea. I mean I have nothing against doing something with you but for me it'd be nothing but friendship. Honeslty I haven't forgotten about Yoan yet and I don't feel comfortable to go on a date with you if you have thoughts behind your head since your one of his friends. I don't say that to be mean