I mean being aware of one's own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and sort of monitoring them. Also, how aware should one be of a girl's behavior and body language when interacting with her.
I think some of this awareness can be good at times, but it also tends to take me out of the moment from enjoying things and relaxing more. What do you think?
As for myself, I tend to be very aware because I'm at a stage in my life where I'm trying to consciously eradicate a lot of bad thoughts and behaviors and consciously learn to identify certain body language cues or signals until it all becomes unconscious so I won't have to work at it.