Is this something I can change?
What I mean is this...
I was at a bar and the bartender starts talking to me and then a male bartender comes in and my "comfort zone," is to turn and talk to the male bartender.
I think this has to do with the fact that I was raised with four brothers, playing/watching football, etc... And the only female in the house was my mom, who I did not exactly get along with.
Do you think this is something I can change?