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    Default I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    I think I am, and have been told that I am, an interesting person. I am starting a home building company that I think will be one of the largest in the state of Florida within the next 10 years. I invented and manufacture dietary supplements that will be marketed all over the country. I am starting my own brand of bottled water within the next 6 months. These are all very interesting things if I would talk about them.

    The problem is that I don't talk. I avoid eye contact except to stare and I don't know how to start, let alone maintain, a conversation.

    I am beginning to think that I have Asperger's syndrome, which has all of these symptoms. I don't know what to do.

    I am literally sitting in a bar right now surrounded by potential targets and sitting here staring at the counter with no hopes of actually talking to someone.

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    You do sound interesting. Aspergers has many many benefits, embrace it

    Perhaps in future you could go with a wingman?

    Alternatively, if you manufacture dietary supplements, you could do your own leg work and marketing and rock up to gyms to get contacts. This would kill a lot of birds, but namely, would build your confidence. I can literally walk into anywhere and start a conversation with anyone about anything. Research and Confidence are great tools at your disposal. Also, if you can't look at people in the eye, focus on a spot between their eyes and then look around you every so often to make it appear casual. Chin up, you sound awesome.
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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    Thanks, and sorry for the negative comment in another post. You know how frustration can breed anger sometimes.

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    Oh. I didn't notice?

    Yes lol I have had quite a bit of experience with frustration (anger is the root) so I do understand! heh
    Life is much easier once the anger is gone. Hopefully your night is going better
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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    And here's how the rest of the night went.... at one point there was these two girls in skirts standing right next to me, and I probably would have had to say little more than "hi, what's your name?" and maybe they would be home with me right now. This is easy to say once I'm back home, but hard for some reason when I'm out. Last time I had sex was about 2 days ago and it was really good and I would love to be having some with one or both of them right now. I have read every book in the world. I know all the "theory" behind social value, preselection, etc etc.... but it's all a waste if I can't even say "hi, that's a nice dress," or something like that...

    I noticed how many of the people there were talking to girls they just met that night and I know that from over hearing their conversations.

    At another point, there was a two set sitting not too far from me and of course I am not confident enough to even give them anything but a few looks. Some other guy came up and talked to them for a few minutes, smiling and making them laugh and everything and I thought he was really good, but he left by himself. I don't even think he got their number or anything.

    I don't even know that I have Asperger's. It may be true, or I may just be finding excuses and diagnosing myself with mental disorders that I didn't even know existed last week.

    And tomorrow, I will wake up with a big boner and the whole process will start again.

    But on the plus side, I did waste $35 on beer and broke my commitment to not smoking.

    If I had even the least bit of conversational skills, I think my life would be a lot better. I cannot rely on girls to come up to me and get every single thing out of me. Because you have to think in a domestic situation how awkward that would be if I'm sitting there being silent.

    And as for Pimpin's question on another thread... what do I look before besides looks and what am I after in life besides money? I have no idea. I had a girl I was talking to a few months ago whose dad was a BILLIONAIRE (and messing that up is what inspired me to get back into this stuff in the first place)... and she's inheriting something like $100 million dollars when she turns 21 and at one point was going to ask her dad to invest in my business, but none of that happened.

    What am I looking for besides money? I really don't know and I don't think that money will bring me happiness, either. Maybe I just want women. Maybe I want to be like Richard Branson and take supermodels on exotic vacations and bang them. Who knows? Maybe just to be happy. Maybe to be healthy, but death is inevitable anyway, so I don't know.

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    Again... it's your confidence.

    Are you proud of your success and imminent success? To be attracting some lovely 21 years olds, you also must have good looks and it's obvious you also have smarts...

    Money... hmmm... I've had a lot of money and it really doesn't make you happy. You're right. It's who you really ARE, what you have DONE with your life. That is what makes you.

    Go do something fun, you sound like you deserve it
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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    What do you see that is lacking in my confidence and how do I fix it?

    Why do I lack such basic confidence to so much as say "hi" to a girl sitting at a bar a few feet away from me?

    Wouldn't it suck if I built a multimillion dollar business and still lacked this confidence?

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    Actually it would pretty cool of you are a multimillionaire and humble

    You lack basic confidence because you lack SELF BELIEF and you don't like yourself.

    Here is something that may help:

    Make a list of paper and write on it all what makes you a great person :
    In your case I would put:
    1) smart and has a huge ambition.
    2) Working on yourself to become a better person.
    3) Over came a lot of hard times and still pushing forward.
    4) You are a risk taker and going out of you comfort zone.
    .............FIll maybe 10 qualities.

    now I want you to read this list every time your mind goes into the weakness zone.
    Actually read it when you wake up when you are eating before you sleep, Take this list with you everywhere.

    Do this more a month. You should start feeling a little better about yourself and more deserving.

    Pimpin'Scout

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    So what did those girls say when you showed them my picture? Or did that happen yet?

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    Default Re: I am interesting, but don't know how to talk

    I was gona reply on that post. None said you are ugly. Two said you are alright . One said you are handsome. None said you look sad. One said you hate camera.

    They also agreed that a little gym will push you a couple of notches up>

    So I said what about being a millionaire. They said haha it pushes him a 1000 notches up.

    You are not bad man...YOu have nothing to worry about. Actually YOUR CREATE SHIT IN YOUR HEAD and worry about it and that makes you worried.

    "How do you kill a ghost ".....YOU DONT THEY DONT EXIST!...

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