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    Default Re: To which man do I give my time?

    There's no way to know unless you meet them in person, but girls online are scared of meeting up.

    Mystique why don't you try starting a conversation with a guy you like? Be proactive-don't put all the pressure on the guy to be super interesting, creative, funny or original-most guys dont have game.

    You should be willing to engage a guy as long as he doesn't send d### pics or ask for sex right away without getting to know you.

    But no matter what all guys do wanna hook up eventually, especially if you're attractive.

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    Default Re: To which man do I give my time?

    Thanks for your reply meteora. Agree with all your points. Online dating is not the only avenue available to me. Men are extremely rare in church and in both areas where I volunteer despite my church being (for want of a better word) popular. Hence my dilemma and exploration into the seedy world of online dating lol
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    [QUOTE=wikiwally;1350 95]There's no way to know unless you meet them in person, but girls online are scared of meeting up.

    Mystique why don't you try starting a conversation with a guy you like? Be proactive-don't put all the pressure on the guy to be super interesting, creative, funny or original-most guys dont have game.

    Believe me my friend, I have no problems approaching guys I like and I ensure I am friendly, responsive and open.
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    Default Re: To which man do I give my time?

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Believe me my friend, I have no problems approaching guys I like and I ensure I am friendly, responsive and open.
    Your inbox full. Can't send any more messages.

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    Default Re: To which man do I give my time?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    1. online dating is very superficial. far too many girls act like they are a 10 when they're hiding behind a computer screen, despite the fact that most of them are significantly less physically desirable. nothing's worse than an average girl with an above average ego. I understand that online dating has a way of inflating women's ego's probably because of the sheer number of hopeless and desperate men on those sites. if a man is truly good with women, he won't waste his time on online dating.

    2. its kind of hard to pick guys out of the crowd when they all literally message you with a simple "hey" or "how's it going?" or some derogatory message. one day my friend Hannah showed me some of the messages she got, and all of them sucked. she only responded to a handful of guys out of over a hundred (mainly because those guys appeared rich or had some serious muscles, or were soldiers in uniform)
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    Couldn't have said it better myself. I always HATED it when I went to an average looking woman's profile and it said shit like "I know what I deserve. I want this this, and this In a guy and I wont settle for anything less blah blah blah". I was always thinking "bitch you aren't even hot. If I saw you in a bar I wouldn't even notice you! You're the type of chick I hooked up with when I was drunk and then I would deny that I did it later!" There's nothing worse then knowing that half the women you message that don't reply would LOVE meeting you in real life. Online dating makes women WAY too choosy.


    That's another thing that pushed me away from it. When you already know how shitty most messages are that women get, and you write really good personalized messages, and only get 20-30 percent to respond it's just not worth it. Those messages take a long time to write and the time investment is way too much. I would understand if I was a troll, but I'm an attractive guy. I seriously don't know how T-Mal mastered the online dating thing. He's obviously put forth way more effort then I care to, and he owns it. Very few men ever do.

    Mystique- Since you're taking on this endeavor, I'm sure allot of guys on this forum would appreciate it if you wrote a few posts about your experiences. Something that would be very helpful is if you made a post with all the opening messages you received that you ACTUALLY replied too. Also a post with really bad messages that a guy should never send. That way allot of the men on this forum who are messing around with online dating can get a little help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Couldn't have said it better myself. I always HATED it when I went to an average looking woman's profile and it said shit like "I know what I deserve. I want this this, and this In a guy and I wont settle for anything less blah blah blah". I was always thinking "bitch you aren't even hot. If I saw you in a bar I wouldn't even notice you! You're the type of chick I hooked up with when I was drunk and then I would deny that I did it later!" There's nothing worse then knowing that half the women you message that don't reply would LOVE meeting you in real life. Online dating makes women WAY too choosy.
    I agree in principle. Just keep in mind some women (myself included) have been treated very badly. When they come to realise they deserve better, they are empowered. Some women just know their inner value and although they don't need to state it, a lot of us women are fearful of being hurt and mistreated. Just to put another spin on it

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Mystique- Since you're taking on this endeavor, I'm sure allot of guys on this forum would appreciate it if you wrote a few posts about your experiences. Something that would be very helpful is if you made a post with all the opening messages you received that you ACTUALLY replied too. Also a post with really bad messages that a guy should never send. That way allot of the men on this forum who are messing around with online dating can get a little help.
    Can do. Received a few last night that I actually replied to
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    Your inbox full. Can't send any more messages.
    haha the irony is not lost on you apparently!! cleared now, mode set to: Responsive.
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    Default Re: To which man do I give my time?

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    I agree in principle. Just keep in mind some women (myself included) have been treated very badly. When they come to realise they deserve better, they are empowered. Some women just know their inner value and although they don't need to state it, a lot of us women are fearful of being hurt and mistreated. Just to put another spin on it

    I understand that. Mistreatment is foreign too me because I've never seen it, but the online dating profile stuff I see is different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    I understand that. Mistreatment is foreign too me because I've never seen it, but the online dating profile stuff I see is different.
    Yes. Just making a note for others who may be reading really. Of course, I am only speaking on behalf of some women. We have some of the highest stats in the world for domestic violence.

    There are those who have inflated the ego so much they have deluded themselves. It's rather hard to give an accurate view of oneself online, esp as most people aren't self aware/had any therapy. Quite hard to strike the balance between modesty, truth and confidence lol
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