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Thread: How do I find my identity?

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    Default How do I find my identity?

    I don't even know who I am. How do I fix this and how do I find it? I have often been described as being uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    From what it sounds, you don't know who you are personality-wise. I'm hearing that you don't know how to be yourself. Am I right?

    I've been struggling with the same thing with shyness and social anxiety, but I'm working diligently to overcome it. I've often felt the same as you do, and my best advice would be to to keep exploring yourself and the world as much as you can. Get out there and experience as many different things as you can. Discover yourself. Discover what makes you laugh, what makes you happy, etc. Let go of what others think of you. You can't find yourself if you're looking to others to define you.

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    I think there's something wrong with me because I can't just go up to a girl in a bar and smile and introduce myself and just be natural....

    There must be something deeply rooted behind this...

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    You are here to learn like most of us. Just relax, take it easy and try to be fun. Don't take it all too seriously.

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    Red that is why I gave you the mission! I knew it from the moment we talked you had this problem.

    I want you to take this SERIOUSLY as a HEART BEAT because this is your LIFE. Stop wasting fucking time.

    I want you to put the same PASSION and FIRE you put in to your business as to getting over your fears!

    You are a MAN! WHo faced the worse is afraid of a set of tits and a pussy ...Cmon dude!

    Red you want to be comfortable in your skin. Well you can't be as long as you are a PERFECTIONIST....I can sense you want everything to perfect.

    In social situations and women dont go for being perfect and give the perfect impression..

    Your rules:

    1) YOU CAN FUCK IT UP! IT IS OK TO FUCK IT UP! You can EVEN ENJOY FUCKING IT UP!
    2) DO the list I gave you and read that paper.
    3) Finish approaches I gave you.
    4) PRACTICE! You can practice everyday. When you are supermarket and you bought something give the clerk a smile and wish them a good and talk to the for a minute. In a tax do the same.. JUST PRACTICE!
    5) Don't listen to the wrong sources for advice.

    Pimpin'Scout

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    What would I talk about for a whole minute? That seems like eternity.

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    You talk about what you noticed on her...Maybe she has a cool hat...

    Look at hat:
    1)has colour
    2)Related to fashion
    3)You have to be in a certain mood to wear a certain hat

    Maybe it is her beauty:
    1) Where did she get that beauty from ..Mom or dad.

    ....YOU will figure out as you talk to them

    You can even ...compliment her and say you are practicing how to to talk girl because you get nervouse arroun them and then tellthe girl to help you in choosing a topic.


    I ADVISE YOU to join:
    1) Acting club..THey teach you to improvie shit on the fly.
    2) A speech club..WIlll teacch you to project your voice.

    Pimpin'Scout

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    "Where did you get that beauty from, your mom or your dad,"... That is probably the best opening line ever.

    Nervous around them socially, but I had a girl over from Tinder a few days ago and their was no nervousness. Straight to the point and she said it was good, especially the oral.

    So THAT, I can do.

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    Default Re: How do I find my identity?

    Yup that is why I told you 100000000000 TIMES you are fighting with a ghost. You are trying to FIX something that doesn't exist. Like a placebo.

    Yes some pua faggot will take this line and make it a product call it Direct attraction HAHAHAHA
    I just speak what comes to my head.

    Pimpin'Scout


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