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Thread: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

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    Default Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    Hi all,


    I've been doing direct day game on and off for a while now. After I open and say something along the lines of that I find the girl cute, I generally get a positive response. However, aside from asking the boring interview style questions such as what do you do and where are you from (which can be ok but only when the conversation is already going well), I'm not sure exactly what to say so it becomes a decent chatty and flirty conversation.


    I have tried making assumptions about what they do or wear etc but when pretty much everyone is a professional and nothing stands out etc (say if I do day game after work), there is not really that much to say here.


    Any ideas? Good topics to bring up or good lines to say?

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    I have the same issue here : - Could somebody point/post a field report ?

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    I would suggest watch in-field videos of Justin Wayne. There are like 3 to 4 videos in total on youtube but they are much better than cramming some tipics imo. This way you can see their body language as well.

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    Easiest method is to narrate the situation, talk about what she's doing, or what's going on in the environment.

    This feels natural and is simple.

    When shes outside going somewhere :" Off to work?"

    If she looks like a student :" Done with finals?"

    If shes at work and looks busy : " Working hard?"

    This opens them up, afterwards you make a statement or give an opinion about what she says.

    Keep making statements/opinions until she contributes and the conversation flows naturally, but whatever you do don't ask a million questions back to back or you will annoy her and kill any attraction.

    Your question >her answer>your statement about her answer

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    Thank you Sam981 for the videos and & wikiwally, for the insight.

    Yes, I do feel like if the conversation is not going anywhere I tend to panic and ask questions back to back and not pay any attention to her answer. I lack the ability to construct a conversation that is natural and elegant.

    The scenario I have in mind is a coffee shop. Another problem is that its pretty quiet in there and everybody can hear me , which makes me a little uncomfortable .

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    Quote Originally Posted by Acererak View Post
    Yes, I do feel like if the conversation is not going anywhere I tend to panic and ask questions back to back and not pay any attention to her answer. I lack the ability to construct a conversation that is natural and elegant.
    I think this is your problem. The environment has nothing to do with this imo.Try having conversations with strangers, if you find it difficult to talk to girls, talk with male strangers and see if you feel the same problem. Most likely you'll have problems even talking to men.

    But it can be fixed..no worries.. just keep practising this exercise (talking to strangers) and hopefully you'll get good within few days. Or at least thats what worked for me.

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    Quote Originally Posted by wikiwally View Post
    Easiest method is to narrate the situation, talk about what she's doing, or what's going on in the environment.

    This feels natural and is simple.

    When shes outside going somewhere :" Off to work?"

    If she looks like a student :" Done with finals?"

    If shes at work and looks busy : " Working hard?"

    This opens them up, afterwards you make a statement or give an opinion about what she says.

    Keep making statements/opinions until she contributes and the conversation flows naturally, but whatever you do don't ask a million questions back to back or you will annoy her and kill any attraction.

    Your question >her answer>your statement about her answer
    Thanks for your answer, that gives me a template to work with.

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    You're welcome, and have a good day!

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    Default Re: Direct day game - what to say after the opener?

    You need Chemistry, Sexual Tension and push/Pull.

    yOu need to actually seem like a dick, but actually show attraction. Make a Complement and then Tease right away making a indifferent. Your cute, but idk your nerdy, your dimples just are a little bit of a turn off.

    Theres really only 4 principles mainly for Attraction,

    Counter Intutitiveness, Playfulness, Indifference, Push/Pull.


    Now some of this Theory I learned recently but It`s something ive been natural at but now Actually knowing what it is, I can tell you exactly what it is... Just look at most PUA stuff.

    with the night game stuff , you see guys being really indifferent, Challenging the woman and creating so much sexual Attention. First off Indifference will create intrigue and will show your not afraid to be different and not have to please her like a like idiot :P. Create IOI`s but start after show IOD`s. You can use a IOI with verbal but then use a IOD with the physical or the opposite. Verbal IOD`s but Physical IOI`s...

    You can be you, say what you want and It won`t matter weather she likes it or not, until later when you go into Connection rapport, You still don`t care if she doesn't like that you are indifferent but there is more connection, so you can show that you care and all that, but that push/pull is always there. This of course depends on what type of Woman she is, There is 8 types of woman, so I suggest you find out what those are.


    but ya, night game is so much different but The principles don`t change,. Just Night game is more physical at first and more aggressive game but With day game you just use all of that but in it`s general Context of the environment your in.


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