Re: Not Needing Women
I've never tried online dating because I don't find it really sincere, like hiding behind a screen and all, but don't be prejudiced like me, by all means try it, maybe it'll benefit you in certain ways.
Originally Posted by Somebody
If you're really anxious about approaching beautiful women, start approaching the ones who aren't really attractive to you. Hell if you can't even do that, just approach random people. Dudes, old ladies, anyone you see...
You say it's your biggest challenge so far and you being able to acknowledge that is already half the way. Trust me, many people live and die without even getting to know themselves fully. Self-evaluation and self-criticism takes a lot of courage.
It's also men's instinct to attack problems. So attack them. There is no magical formula that will make you do it in a day. Start small like I told you. Step by step.
I remember I was kinda like you about 3 years ago. I didn't even have friends. Then I found this forum, started reading. Here we're trying to teach people that PUA is not just about women, instead it's actually about the self. When you make yourself better, women will come running.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.